What do i do when my g/f says she is always mad and frustrated me but i havent done anything?

Answer 1

just talk to her and ask what the problem is and if there's anything you can do. If she's always mad at you then maybe she needs to work on her anger management or communicate to you why she's feeling the way she's feeling. If this doesn't work, then perhaps she's not mature enough to be in a relationship right now. But whatever the case, encourage her to tell you what's wrong and see if you can make it work, if she has reasonable expectations, let her know that and then see how to compromise. If that doesn't work, then just leave her alone, you don't deserve the drama.

Answer 2

Well.....you can't ask her. Women are, for the most part, not very in tune with things and any answer she gives you will be, at best, ignorant, if not outright dishonest. That's the bad news.

The good news is that all normal women (warning....many women are not normal) want the same thing. They want a strong man who loves them.

Strong has a specific meaning. You are calm, cool and collected, especially when things go wrong or when bad things happen. You can always be relied on. You don't have phobias, silly fears or neuroses. Your buttons are extremely hard to push and you approach most situations and most people with an attitude of power and benevolence. You do not allow bad behavior from yourself or other people but the way you deal with these things involves firmness and fairmindedness rather than disapproval and punishment. You do not engage in bad habits of any type. You focus on effecting the world around you instead of being effected by random events. This is the template for the type of man that women are highly attracted to. Usually, this is where the problem is. Instead of showing her these things whenever you can, you do the opposite. She loses attraction and becomes sexually frustrated. She will instantly leave you for a man who does show these qualities (or just screw him behind your back). Her being mad and frustrated is her trying to goad you into showing these qualities in a rather negative and dysfunctional manner. Almost no women are aware of these things. However, all normal women respond to this. Non-normal women are easy to spot. They do drugs, involve themselves in abusive relationships, call themselves lesbians etc. Get rid of all women like this from your life.

Love has a specific meaning too. It means you genuinely care about her and are in it for the long term. You will never leave her and your children and will devote yourself to them. Women are TERRIFIED of being abandoned. This is a biological imperative. For most of human history, abandonment was a death sentence for her and her children. If your woman is constantly asking you, "Do you love me" etc. or vying for your attention or trying to push your buttons, this is why. You must do what is necessary to make her feel loved and do it every day. Because, if you don't she will act pre-emptively to replace you with someone else because she is afraid you will leave her when it matters most, if you don't love her. And there is absolutely nothing rational about it at all.

Answer 3

Sit her down and have a talk with her and ask her why does she always get so frustrated at you for no apparent reason. I'm sure she'll tell you but I bet it's just frequent mood swings she has. I don't think it's anything to worry about though unless she's hitting you or saying stuff she shouldn't say.

Answer 4

That's the point. You haven't done anything. Do something.. Ask her what is it about you that frustrates her and makes her mad. See if her reasons are something reversible or within your control. If all she gives u is crap, start thinking about it if staying in a relationship with her is worth it..

Answer 5

Of course you've done something! Are you serious? No woman gets angry for NO reason... Maybe that's it, is she a woman or are you guys teenagers?
If you're adults I'm sure you know what you've done nine times out of ten. Maybe she should just move on if you really frustrate her that much.

Answer 6

Ask her what's making her angry at you, and try to understand her. She might be wrong, and you just might not be realizing it. She could just be in a bad mood because of something though, so in that case, just ask her what's wrong. Whatever you do, don't ignore her or don't get mad at her back.

Answer 7

You don't THINK you have done anything, but maybe you should try to listen to her side of it and be more understanding. Something is bothering her, weather or not be what she is blaming you for, so find out what is really wrong.

Answer 8

maybe shes just tired of the relationship. I used to get more frustrated when my ex didnt do that much of anything, because i was just tired of the way our relaitonship was going. Ask her about it.

Answer 9

Your male, a course you have done something wrong.

Catch up with one of her girl friends and take her out on a date. When she does her nut at you, at least you have a valid reason.

Answer 10

it is not to late to kick her to the curb and find a new gf! what i mean is your not engaged or married right? so get rid of her now if she is already frustrated with you and she is not even married to you can you imagine what your future with her is going to be like!!