if you have known a guy for quite a while, and you have met up a few times and kissed and he asks you to give him a B.J, is he just after "one thing"from you?
2006-11-07 03:52:49 · 23 answers · asked by Becky 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
not actually dating this guy, meet up whenever we are out together. he tells me that he likes me.
2006-11-07 03:53:33 · update #1
he hasnt pushed me for sex
2006-11-07 03:53:56 · update #2
He most likely is after the physical aspect. People will treat you the way you let them. If you want more, then you have to demand more. If you are fine with the way things are... more power to you. But if you don't try to be anything more with him than friends with benifits, than that's all you will probably ever be.
2006-11-07 03:57:46 · answer #1 · answered by Rachael C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well does it seem like he only wants one thing?Does he asks for a bf alot? Do you two every do anything else besides giving him a bj?Do you "NOT" enjoy giving him a bj?
If you answered es to most or all of these questions then he is most likly using you for one thing for sure but its funny axctually because all of these girls come here for answers when the best answer is from one person and thts the boy ur giving bj's to..
so why dont u ask him
2006-11-07 11:59:04 · answer #2 · answered by becca . 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl he only wants one thing from you and that oral sex! and SEX! seeing that he just goes out from time to time with you! hes not in love nor does he like you he only see's you as a booty call! or friends with benefits
2006-11-07 11:56:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I gotta tell you, a BJ is still sex no matter what you may think. You can't get pregnant true but you can get alot of other nasty gifts that keep on giving!
2006-11-07 11:55:43 · answer #4 · answered by Rita T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could mean alot of things...he wants u to make him feel good or maybe just one thing but if you say he told you that he likes u then I dunno he might want a relationship as well as a good sex life. You didn't give much information on how he acts around you and feels about you well I hope I helped.
2006-11-07 11:56:28 · answer #5 · answered by iluvashtonkutcher676 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if he's after one thing, it's certainly not romance, is it?
That's about the coarsest thing a man can say to a woman he's not in a relationship with. Tell the jerk to go and suck it himself.
2006-11-07 11:56:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not being funny but he should not be asking for it! If the two of you want to go that far then it should be a mater of give and take!
2006-11-07 11:58:44 · answer #7 · answered by dan T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen girl, if any guy asks me for a BJ I would not mind, so long as he knows that before he gets his BJ, he has to lick and suck my Kitty.
2006-11-07 11:59:05 · answer #8 · answered by Latoya. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confused?
Bloody dense if you ask me.
I think you already know the answer to that question - you are just hoping your concerns aren;t true. Well let me tell you know love; They are.
This guy is using you - AND you let him.
More fool you.
2006-11-07 12:00:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oral sex is still sex. If you're not dating, then yes, he's only after you for one thing.
2006-11-07 12:08:22 · answer #10 · answered by F 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋