Has anybody ever been bullied in elementary,middle school or high school?

Question

I use to get bullied in middle school but as I got older I grew out of that bullshit and start whopping bitches asses that tried me up.Dont say nothin mean because nobodys perfect people.If you are a bully tell me why you like bullying people.Now days I look back and laugh at that **** because if I use to act like I do now I probably would have been in trouble all the time.

Anybody thats getting bullied now I feel your pain but sooner or later that **** gone get old and you gone think in your mind im bout to **** this ************ up.

Honey I appreciate you answer but this is not a tough guy act and I dont just start fights with people.I only start **** with you if then ****** with me in any kind of way.You trying to say I am a bully but you got it all twisted up because I dont go around picking on people that cant fight back.If you define sticking up for yourself as bullying you need to go look the word up again.Im glad you changed your ways though.

If you think Im wrong for fighting people if they trying to fight me thats just your opinion.But my mama tells me if a ***** gets in your face trying to swing,swing on them motherfuckers back.Now who you think I'm gone listen to,exactly my mother.I know some of you people on here thats lieing is not gone stand there why somebody trying to punch you in your damn face.

People how the way it looks,its more to me then this im gone **** you up mood.Im also a real sweet and friendly person part of the reason I use to get picked on because I use to be so nice to the point where people would take advantage of my kindness but I blame myself for letting them do it.If you a real nice person you can't let people run over you,don't get me wrong you can still be nice to that person but at the same time let them know that they can't take advantage of you.

Answer 1

Yes. This girl used to push me around after I got off the bus. I was so scared, and I guess she knew it. I'd go home crying every day.

So, my mom called her mom, and her mom threatened to come over and beat my mom up.

I guess that apple didn't fall far from the tree!

Answer 2

Diamond, your language is really a turn off. If you want people to take you seriously, it doesn`t make you look approachable with the cursing, and the tough act. This will actually hold you back from accomplishing things is life as people will think you have a big chip on your shoulder, which you very well may.

Yes I have been a bully, it made my feel superior to start fights. I had to change that in my life because soon I found myself alone with no decent person wanting to be around me. I soon tired of the persons who were like me and decided to change my life. I did it for the same reason you did, I was picked on a lot and tired of it, so I would start the fights instead if I didn`t like the way someone talked to me or looked at me. This is not where it is at.

I wish you luck Diamond in all that you do. Instead of fighting people, fight for a cause. Be a mentor for kids that have a problem with bullies. You can relate because you have been there. If they do not have a program like that in the schools where you are, you could talk to principals and counselors about starting a program. You could really help change peoples lives. By the way, I think you have to stand up for yourself. I appreciate what you said about changing my ways.

Answer 3

I am in middle school. I guess if I had to fall under one of those catagories I would have to be a bully. Well not really, you see I beat up the bullys. I can't stand to see poeple bullying the "weaker" kids around. I am not bragging but I have tooken on some bullys 1 1/2 my age and twice my size before, it doesn't take much to send them crying. I guess I am trying to say that if any kids out there are reading this and they know some bullys, step up, fight back for the kids that are being pushed around, if you do EVERYONE will respect you. That doesn't mean go looking for trouble, but if you see a situation you will know the right thing to do.

Answer 4

agh how annoying those mothafucking bitches are when they're mean. there's nothing really you can do about it, and don't follow advice parents give you, 'talk to them about their problems' you'll end up w/ people laughing, the bully embarrased/pissed, and beat the ***** out of you (trust me I've seen it happen) and the traditional advice 'just ignore them' how the ***** can you ignore them if they're acting like that-plus even if u are a genius ignorer, they get madder and keep going. but a bully is more than just someone who beats kids up-a bully is one who teases and makes fun of and makes a school day miserable for a kid. I guess some people just enjoy it-maybe because they are jealous of the other kid...dammn someone should write a book on the thoughts of a bully, and it probably would be dammn interesting

Answer 5

I have been bullied cos I came from a different country, in Infant School and I didn't know a word of English, so I was practically branded a freak... in Junior School it wasn't too great I was one of the "unpopular" kids and I was always nice to everyone and they all treated me like crap. But it's eased out now, I'm in Secondary School, and I'm still unpopular but I don't really give a crap. I realise this is because, my parents told me, the majority of people aren't nice. About say... 80%. There's that rare 20% who, aren't amazing, but are OK. I know this now, and my confidence has grown loads. I know I'm lucky for all the good friends I have and am getting on with my life.

Answer 6

Way back in elementary and middle school, I used to take a lot of crap from people because I was really heavy and uncordinated. In HS I hit the gym and by the end of freshman year I was dating a Sr and as sad as it sounds now, I got even with the bullies!
At the reunions, we all joked about how childish we were and had a great time! Everyone changes, good luck to you!

Answer 7

I got bullied something fierce in Highschool my whole Junior year. I would always go to the nurses office pretending to be sick. I know my Mom knew, but she would pick me up from school anyways and write me sick notes. A few times I didn't even go to school. My Mom let me stay home. My Mom always taught me to turn the other cheek. After this girl shoved me to the ground and my books went flying everywhere I decided to just get up brush myself off, pick up my books, and look her straight in the eyes and tell her you didn't hurt me at all. I walked away. It was 2 days later she came up to me and apologized and we become best friends. I am still good friends with her after 20 years. I also had another girl that tried to pick fights with me and after walking away so many times she finally came around and also became a close friend of mine. I was always so tiny in school. Skinny, flat chested, and overall little. The girls would get so angry at me. I also belonged to the Fashion Modeling club so they assumed I was stuck up. Little did they know I was shy and very much a bookworm. I am actually glad I had these experiences when I was younger because I have become stronger today. I took up Martial Arts about 7 years ago and swore no one would ever kick my butt like that again. Now I am not afraid to be confronted.

Answer 8

I used to be taunted/teased in middle school, and the early years of high school because of my 'style'. I was one of those kids who wore alot of black, rock band paraphinalia, over-exaggerated eye makeup, 'weird' clothes, rainbow colored hair.. the works. (this was way before "emo" became the norm.. looks like I was ahead of my time - how about that!) I would have people yelling ignorant comments at me all day. I really never let it get to me, though. Just because I wasn't a carbon-copy of the blonde cheerleaders with the quarterback boyfriends.. So what?!

I never had to resort to physical fights, because I was always somewhat of a peaceful person. Besides, no one's going to respect someone who runs around, getting kids in headlocks.
Wit and Sarcasm were my secret weapons at that age. And, hey.. it must have worked out for me.. I never changed my style, and senior year I actually got the vote for "most popular".

Being different isn't so bad..

Answer 9

Im not a bully and never was bullied or pushed around,but I always saw some kids being bullied around. My advice to those kids who are benig pushed around is to step up and kick the **** out of them and they will never bother you again once they learn their lesson! its good that u started whooping bitches asses, u gotta show people they cant **** with u! as for why bullys act like bullys, probably bc they are insecure with themselves so they find someone else to take it out on.

Answer 10

i was bullied like crazy and it still hurts. i can remember all the way in first grade when a girl used to take her juice box and squeeze it at me.
another time i went to sit down to eat lunch in the cafeteria and as i sat down a girl said ewww and got up and moved. i just looked at her in her face she had no shame.

i was bullied up until 9 th grade. and even then i was bullied every now and then.
i don't know what it was about me in elementary school i was voted queen of nerds. i dont think it was funnny now, even the teachers treated me different. now i don't take junk from anyone.

Answer 11

I was bullied by a group of girls for a few months in middle school. It was only because I was white, and there was nothing I did to set them off, except being born white. Once they got their fill of screwing with me, they started on another white girl and then wanted to be my friend. I was like, "yeah, un-huh....I'll be your friend. Right"

Edited to add, since I got a thumbs down, the girls TOLD me this was why they were at me. It wasn't my assumption.