should kids have sex befor they are married?

Answer 1

I give two totally different answers to this question.

Initially, I will state the previously repeated "Kids should never have sex"... I'll add, Teens should really wait too.

Now, My answers.
I beleive that Sex should wait until marriage.
If something occurs before the wedding to prevent the wedding, you're far better off to not have the 'previous sexual relations' stigma.. not to mention the possibility of children produced from those relations.

That being said.
- No. I did not wait until marriage.
Why?
I had good reasons.
I was sexually abused as a child. I didn't want sex, ever again, but knew it would be unfair to marry someone, and then not make love to them.
I wanted both him and I to know if we could deal with my sexual difficulties BEFORE we were married.... I wanted us to go into our vows with all necessary information.

People may say my 100% different views are impossible.
Well, if I didn't have sexual stigma already, I would have waited, gladly and joyfully.
I wish I could have.
But I support my decision 100%.

Answer 2

I guess you meant teenagers not kids, I dont believe you have to get married to have sex, if you are educated and prepared to have sex marriage doesnt make a difference, people just need to be responsible and use protection, its almost 2007! A lot of marriages dont succeed anyway so what's the point? and a lot of people dont believe in marriage so what should they do, stay virgin their whole life? I've seen kids that get married because they want to have sex and end up getting a divorce or are always wondering what is it like to have sex with somebody else and cheat. I had sex before I got married and i dont think that makes me a bad person, I have been living with my husband for 3 years I'm 7 months pregnant and got married only a month ago, if a person is mature and is in a stable relationship there is no need to be married, some teens get married way to young just to have sex, marriage is a commintment that shouldnt be use just to have sex

Answer 3

KIDS should not be having sex at all.

If you're an adult, I don't care whether you're married or not. Now, the idea of "casual sex" totally confuses me. I don't understand how anyone could have sex with a person they don't love and respect. THAT is awful.

I do think that people who already have great relationships and are ready to make the commitment of marriage should not necessarily have to wait. I am not waiting. I'm engaged and love my fiance more than anything else in the world. I don't see why we should have to wait until we're officially married.

As long as you're an adult, and are ready to deal with the consequences responsibly (a baby, an STD, a bad relationship, etc), then it's none of my business. Go right ahead.

Answer 4

Kids shouldn't have sex. I am not opposed to pre-marital sex for adults--out of high school at least. Sex needs to not be seen as a child's game. It has both emotional and physical ramifications that can affect someone for a lifetime. There are too many children having children which certainly affects many lives, often negatively--for the mother, the father, the baby and the grandparents. Education often ends which limits future job opportunities. Diseases are a reality and can affect the rest of ones life as well, std's and hiv-aids. Anyway, be sure you are ready and that it is not a game but should be an expression of mature love.(which can also be fun)

Answer 5

I would certainly not advocate teenagers having sex too early. So the answer to this question would depend entirely on the age. Whether or not people should have sex before they are married is a moral and ethical issue and is entirely dependent on your religious and/or social beliefs. I am married and we waited until we were married to have children. But I have had sex before I was married. I see no moral or social reason not to have sex before marriage.

Answer 6

Since "Kids" don't get married, that doesn't make much sense. Should those over 18 have sex before marriage? Only if it's with someone they care deeply about and they are mature enough to handle it.

Answer 7

kids shouldn't get married!!!!!!!!!!!! I had sex before I got married but I was 21 when I lost my virginity and that was to my now husband......... I am not against pre marriage sex at all .. infact I think its great.... I was just not personally ready until I met my husband .. but at the time it was just a one night stand and I really didn't think this English backpacker and I would become serious.... heeheee ahh look at us now hey hheheeh

ahh Im a nympho.. my husband and I have a very healthy sex life hehehe very exciting!!!!! not many people I know can say that .

Answer 8

First of all, kids should not have sex. Sex is for adults in a mature, responsible, committed (yes married) relationship.

Answer 9

KIDS should NOT have sex. Young responsible adults can as long as they are protected and know and accept the results of their actions if it leads to pregnancy. In other words, if you want to do adult things make damned sure that you can deal with the consequences.

Answer 10

You bet! My wife and I dated for seven years before we married. We lived together for three years. We had a chance to date others and learn about our sexuality before we tied the knot. Of our friends ours is the only marriage that has survived. We got to know each other before we decided to legally committ. That's smart. So many people wait to live as sexual beings and find out too late that their sex life with their partner is unsatisfying. Sex is a big part of living a happy life together.