I have been with one guy for two yers now, but there is this guy that i have known my entire life and used to have a very big crush on that is interested in me now that i am of age for him to date me, (he is a couple years older than me), what do i do???? Stay with the one i'm with or go with the other?HELP!
2006-11-07 02:54:59 · 12 answers · asked by vgplamondon 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This is always your choice. Of course, it must be hard to choose, BUT it depends on who YOU will be happier with... who YOU like better. I don't think you have to think about anything if you like someone better... just know who you have stronger feelings for. You don't want to think that the grass is always greener on the other side. You want to be where there is the better guy, the one you can't live without! Good luck!!!
2006-11-07 02:59:48 · answer #1 · answered by Chocolate_swirls18 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess you need to take a good look at the current relationship that you are in. Does he treat you good, is he loving, is he supportive and most important are you happy and do you love him. If you can answer all of the above with a yes then it would be a shame for you to try a new relationship just because of a long standing crush that you have had for another man. Just because you have had interest in him for awhile and can finally date him does not mean he will make you happy...it could be a fly by night relationship and then you have lost out on the one you have now. Is it really worth it? If you are not currently happy then I would say go for it but I would do some soul searching first. Good luck.
2006-11-07 03:01:13 · answer #2 · answered by Stacy H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoever you choose, don't be unfair to the guy who has been committed to you for two years. If you decide to date the crush, you should break up with current BF first and give yourself a few weeks before going out with someone new.
Also, keep in mind that crush's don't always turn out to be what you think they are. We tend to build a crush up in our mind and then when they show an interest and we really get to know them, we are often disappointed. Just my 2 cents, but I hope it helps.
2006-11-07 03:01:15 · answer #3 · answered by lorilou 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trying something new and exciting is always fun. However, you risk losing the security and comfort of the relationship you're in. If you're even considering talking to the old time friend again, you've obviously made up your mind. I've been in a relationship for 2 years and if i got dumped for a lifelong friend, i'd be pretty pissed. Follow your heart.
2006-11-07 02:57:29 · answer #4 · answered by edu_jr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just make sure if you leave your guy that you really liked the older guy and that you STILL do. Dont go for him because you used to have a crush on him
2006-11-07 02:58:54 · answer #5 · answered by thatniceguy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well how would you feel if you left this guy that you have been dating to date the other guy??? Maybe you could talk with you current boyfriend and let him know the situation. Date both of them. Is this other guy worth possibly ruining your relationship with your boyfriend?? Hard decision.
2006-11-07 02:58:31 · answer #6 · answered by Gloria A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it isnt broke dont fix it 2 years is a long time to throw away but at the end of the day you have to follow your heart
2006-11-07 03:01:35 · answer #7 · answered by kitten6444 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi go with the one you truly love.
go with your hear there must be one your deeply in love with.
if you've been with one for 2 years then think " do i really love this man" you need to think about it.
good luck
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2006-11-07 03:06:30 · answer #8 · answered by danni 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm just go for the guy dat u really have feelins foe da most nd if it is not ur bf den be sure to tell him da truth so he wuld noe...
2006-11-07 03:03:24 · answer #9 · answered by emmaline_tran 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u r happy with this guy u r with, i'ld advice u 2 stick with him. For the fact thatthe other guy askes u out now that u r matured, know that he might have other intentions and u might not get wat u want 4rm him so girl, STICK 2 UR GUY!!!
2006-11-07 03:32:46 · answer #10 · answered by genipabu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋