I've been dating this guy whom I love but it's only been 6 months He recently has mentioned marriage- we also work together which despite what everyone says works out well for us and we are like family with all of our co-workers and today a few of the guys were teasing me about "when's the wedding- this is very pecular because these sren't the type of guys to just say something like that so what do I do- we both have been married before so this isn't like we're new to this I guess I'm just suprised is all But if it were you what would you do?
2006-11-07 02:54:19 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Even though it's only been a short time - since you work together you have probably gotten to know him ALOT better than most people get to know people before you get married. Being a divorcee, you know it takes more than love for a good relationship. Make sure you are *crystal* clear on the issues of MONEY and KIDS before getting married, as those are the two things that tend to break most relationships.
CONGRATULATIONS AND BEST WISHES
P.S. When I said kids, more specifically I meant dealing with children from former marriages and all the @#$% associated with that. Be *crystal* clear on what you are willing to deal with and what you are not, or second marriages are a living hell.
2006-11-07 02:58:45 · answer #1 · answered by cstoa10 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd continue to play it cool....enjoy dating your guy and don't worry about the co-worker's teasing. It sounds good natured and just because they're teasing you about marriage doesn't mean anything has changed, does it? You've been married before and probably understand what a big committment that is....don't rush anything. Keep on keeping on as the expression goes...no additional action is required on your part at this point. He hasn't proposed...so don't go there.
2006-11-07 02:58:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have 1% doubt about marriage then don't. No one is required by law to get married. Whats his rush? The whole concept is taken for granted, its a LIFE changing decision. Be Adult about this see if you can live together first. If you are both divorcees then you should have your backsides warmed for even contemplating it.
2006-11-07 03:04:56 · answer #3 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you feel that strongly about the guy then set a date for a year or so away maybe. it's not comitting all the way but it is saying that you do love him. don't let your past keep you from the future. this guy obviosly loves you don't hold back let your heart have the love it deserves.
2006-11-07 04:30:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Marry in haste, repent at leisure.
2006-11-07 02:57:34 · answer #5 · answered by hankthecowdog 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say follow whatever is in your heart and it will lead you to the right path.
2006-11-07 02:57:32 · answer #6 · answered by ghain39 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well... I'd just brush them off and say something smartass like which would probably be, "When he freaking stops spending his money..."
But thats just me...
2006-11-07 02:56:35 · answer #7 · answered by Shadow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
communicate.. communicate... communicate!!!! state if that's where you both are, talk about fears.. grow through them TOGETHER... then process all of it ... and if all is what you both want ... i can hear the wedding chimes now... best wishes
2006-11-07 02:57:41 · answer #8 · answered by A W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You love him right? Thats all that matters
2006-11-07 02:56:10 · answer #9 · answered by thatniceguy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what feels right!
2006-11-07 02:55:49 · answer #10 · answered by grandm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋