I am going crazy, Please help me ?

Question

-lagging behind in my classes
-Getting married soon
-stressed out from work
-Project problems
-Graduating soon
-Not getting good grades

plz help me I cannot handle all these things at the same time. I am soo stressed out at this moment..

Answer 1

Too much at once. You need to eliminate as much as you can. Try to delegate some of these things off.

Answer 2

Ok, I know this all too well for I graduated a few months back. I swore I was going to fail , especially my math class but some how I not only caught up with all my finals/projects and I passed with honors! Yippie. Ok, one thing at a time, you need to talp to your professors aboutyour grades and see if there is anything that you can do(extra credit) to help you boost them. Maybe a tutor in your school can help also? Out of the three major thing you have going on right now, school, marriage and work, I am assuming that work is the lessor of all three. Look at work as somewhat a reprieve of the other two Major things. As for your marriage, get yourself help with wedding plans. Your Bridesmaid will probably love to be more involved not to mention the parents, ask for help! Put these things in order of Immediate importance. Like you are definetly going to get married so this should be a relief, your job is well, you have one and maybe things are a bit rough with that but I bet right now your nerves are shot because of your school problems. Work on those first! Set a specific amount of time aside just for school and take control of each situation. Take long breaths and keep telling yourself that You can do this just calm down and think! Disect the important things first, the ones that have dates like projects due, finals and so fourth. Make that list and read no further that the top. Tackle the first ones first and when you are done with that then go onto the next. Your looking at the whole picture, try looking at it in pieces, it really takes alot of pressure off of you. Make sure as you complete each thingon your list that you give yourself loads of credit, you have lots going on at once. You CAN do this and you will graduate with good grades, you will be getting married and will feel less stressed out with your work. YOU know you can do this and so do I, Make that list and attack it one problem at a time, good luck and before I forget, congratulations on both your graduation and your up coming wedding!

Answer 3

Lisa,

Don't feel like the lone ranger. You have already stated your problem: Stress. Stress is dangerous and oftentimes inhibit us from making progress in the areas we strongly desire to do so.

You simply have too many "big portions" on your plate. I know the question becomes What do I eliminate because all of it is important? My dear you are going to have to prioritize some of these things you have going on. Ask yourself what is more important, what is the worst thing that can happen if I don't do this or that? You may have to take some time off from work and just relax while you priortize your other business. Maybe you are taking too many classes at one time?

The important thing to remember is that you CAN'T do it all. Prioritize and delegate some of your duties if you can. A little help never hurt anybody. Good luck with everything you are trying to do. Find smarter ways to complete your tasks or you will hurt yourself. Remember stress can cause some serious health problems.
Starsky

Answer 4

Your doing what I used to do and i'm would make myself nuts. you need to slow down and take everything as a items. Not all at once.

First, get you head into doing one thing and working on your school, grades and projects. This will help you get back into getting better grads. You might drop some subject. Just to make it better on yourself.

Stress at work is from them just trying to put a thumb on you. Stop doing to much and just do your work and do the best you can.

As for getting married that stressful enough as it is.

Talk with your finance see how things are going on his side. You'll probably fine out he's going through the same thing.

You can see a therapist and she'll tell you the same thing I just said that you need to prioritize what you are doing.

Answer 5

all work and no play makes jack a dull boy!
prioritize the things you need to finish first, then move down the list.
Dont think of everything in the sense of the big picture, think of the small challenges that you overcome on a daily basis as a way you are working towards all of your goals.
Ask your future hubby if he can take on some of the responsibility for the wedding for awhile while you refocus your attention on work and school
You also need to take some time for you too by making time for your hobbies and interests that arent necessarily helping your career or school life, but something that you just love to do! As these can be huge stress relievers in themselves

Answer 6

sounds like you have a few major life stressors happening all at once!...of course you're stressed!...and you're not getting good grades cuz you've got too much on your plate and somethings gotta give...of all those things you've listed which is at the top of the list and which is at the bottom...which needs immediate attention and which can wait...
maybe you can postpone your wedding?
what are good grades to you? are you passing?...if you're failing then that needs attention, but if it's just that you're not getting straight a's then cut yourself some slack...
can you take a sick day or two from work to relax? don't overthink it-just do it!
ask your friends and family for help...maybe your fiance can do a little extra around the house so you have one less thing to do, maybe you can get a tutor, maybe your best friend can handle some of the wedding planning....
good luck, you can do it!

Answer 7

1) Calm down
2) DO NOT THINK ABOUT ALL THESE THINGS AT ONCE. Stop it. Well, you don't get graduation, wedding and other things all at one day, don't you? So, don't think about all this at once.
3) Live within TODAY. Try to use as much as possible just one single day - today. Because you don't know what will be tomorrow and if you start thinking what you have ruined yesterday, you will just make yourself ill. So, make a plan of what you should do today and fallow it strictly. Forget about tomorrow.
4) !!!!!!! When you have more time, get the book of a wonderful american psychologist - Dale Carnegie
"How to Stop Worrying and Start Living" by Dale Carnegie. This book has helped me greatly, i nearly had an ulcer because of worriness. It's worthwhile buying. But still the main advise is to live within one day - Today.
Good luck!

Answer 8

You should go to a counselor, or, just try to relax. Don't think about everything at once, think about one thing at a time, I would make school my first priority, you might be able to find a tutor or somebody to help you, maybe you could take off of work for a day to catch up on your schoolwork if thats possible, take a nice hot bath, that will help you feel good.

Answer 9

If you let me handle it, I will do a good job. Except for the marriage, let me have some more years of freedom. If I were you, I would reset my times for daily activities on paper, then organize top priorities, and settle from there. I really hope everything goes well with you and your husband. Good luck!

Answer 10

You need coping skills and to realize that each event really is not that stressful. If you need quick fix see your doctor and get anti anxiety pills but beware of the possible addiction.