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if a girl is happy in her new relationship . . would she still be calling her ex that she dumped for this new guy every couple weeks? . . .even though he hasnt answered or sent her something back in 4 months? and she still tries to contact him . . also . . can girls act completely happy on the outside and really be torn up on the inside? is there any way to tell if a girl is feeling like that? . . and if she wanted her ex back why would she still be with me and acting fine? why wouldnt she go back to him? maybe because she dumped him and doesnt know if he will take her back? they did go out for 2 1/2 years so i dunno . .. whats goin on?
and she hasnt told me that shes been calling him . . . and we have been dating since april and have been in an actual relationship for like 2 months . . . how long would she use me as a rebound if thats what i am? wouldnt it be over by now? it been about a month since she called him now since she was calling him. . . so maybe she will stop . . .
then just today she sent an email to him . . . it was this

hey! i just wanted to tell you that i hope you had a good birthday. i was going to call but i figured you wouldnt answer like usual or stop by and give you a card but you would have probably acted like you werent home lol. so i hope you had a good one. it would really mean a lot if you just sent something back lettin me know how ya were doin and stuff...i'de really appreciate it (name)! kayyy bye. . .

so if he hasnt responded to her since june why is she still trying to get ahold of him . . . when he hasnt responded since june?

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and then she just sent this message to him today


"look i know that you are getting my messages...i really just dont understand why you cant even say hi or something?? can you honestly please just give me a reason, like if it still upsets you or something, i mean thats fine. i just figured you could atleast do that for me...so please?"

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i should also add that she has been calling/texting him since the begginning of july . . . he tried to get her back for 2 months after she broke up with him. . . they broke up for no reason . .. she just told him she wanted to date around .. . . and she texted him on what would have been there two year anniversary and reminded him of it

2006-11-07 02:12:24 · 4 answers · asked by lbsb2904 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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you ve asked this numerous times
you have imtimacy issues
you are afraid of commitment that why you prefer this bullsh**t

2006-11-07 02:55:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

If your having to ask a bunch of strangers if you are a wasteing your time on this girl I think you know the answer. As hard as it may be to move on and find someone that will give you what you need will be granted as soon as you realize this girl has issues that dont have anything to do with you but, is effecting you. She isnt ready for someone like you and you deserve to have someone that wants what you do in a relationship. Sounds like she just isnt in that phase of her life yet.
So, I think you should just move on and if its ment to be with this girl then after you tell her that you want her to figure out what it is she wants by giving her space. I think she is going to keep trying to get this guy to answer her calls and e-mials and he obviously has moved on and then maybe she will realize what she has right under her nose. If its not to late and you have found someone else then give her another shot. But, if you allow her to disgregard your feelings about this she will walk all over you and it will never work.
Good luck

2006-11-07 10:40:52 · answer #2 · answered by ROOTER 2 · 0 0

Well she has a reason, sorry to say it sounds like she wants him back.
Just confront her. Ask her straight up if she wants to get back with her ex. If she says no, if she wants to stay with you she has to drop contact with her ex. If she refuses, your best course of action is to dump her.

Dumping her will force her to make a choice. If she really wants you then she will try to win you back and you don't take her back unless she agrees to stop contacting her ex.

If she really wants the ex- she won't try to get you back and you have to move on anyway. The sooner the better.

2006-11-07 10:26:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

since she dumped him, she hopes he is still hurt and in love :)))
and she wants a proof of that
ignorance just kills her, that's all!!!

2006-11-07 10:24:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anais 2 · 0 0

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