we are engaged with each other from last 4 years but from last 4 months she is involved with some 1 else now she want to be my friend only now tell me what i have to do?
2006-11-07 02:05:19 · 10 answers · asked by saahil k 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
so she is not ur wife ,then that is problem .ok do 1 thing prove her that u love her alot tell her that u want 4 marry her n u can't live without her she will accept ur proposal she loved u four years then what happend now try 2 find out reason. don't think so negative be possitive ,involve ur parents in it they will meet with her parents n fix a date 4 marriage.
2006-11-07 03:13:30 · answer #1 · answered by jagrati 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, if everything is at your disposal you take it for granted and start looking for more things, right ?
Just imagine something essential in your life went missing for few days and comes back again then you will know the true value of it.
may be your gf is satisfied with what you have given to her until now, and started exploring more and more things, that she should not.....but its human nature at the end of the day.
making her feel she still needs you is the mantra now you have to apply, dont make anything spectacular for her, just sit and talk with her, spend more time with your chick and do change as per her expectations............add more spice to your relation....may be tell her your intentions......like you are feeling more responsible for her....and want to take care of her for rest of the life....behave like a true hubby man!
Start flirting with few more girls, and set your standards.....its not always good to run behind a single person.......new people new things and new ideas...got my point....however apply everthing u learnt on your gf.
if she can do it, why are you so possessive....give her some room...and take your space too.
2006-11-07 11:41:48 · answer #2 · answered by grooovish 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If U really love the girl continue U R love but never do anything bad to her then U R the Real Love Its best for both of them to turn as the friendship because its safe for U and Her life.
2006-11-07 10:12:57 · answer #3 · answered by Ramasubramanian 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Play cool move slowly... give some more time. U should make her feel that u r in love with her first.
All the best buddy
2006-11-07 10:08:01 · answer #4 · answered by SRI 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are telling me that you fiance is having a fling with someone else and you are just sitting there?
talk to her and tell her - DECIDE WHO YOU WANT
or break off your engagement. if your family is involved, tell them you dont want to marry a girl who cant be faithful to you
good luck, be brave and show her !
2006-11-07 12:00:17 · answer #5 · answered by GorGeous_Girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u shd b a friend 2 her 4 now&show her how much u love him&if she still doesnt accept ur love then its she who is lossing a person who loves her.
2006-11-07 10:43:57 · answer #6 · answered by gurpreet k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't MAKE someone love you. Just continue to be yourself, treat her well, and hope that someday she will come back to you. Sometimes loving someone means letting them go.
2006-11-07 10:08:41 · answer #7 · answered by They call me ... Trixie. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's the way love goes sometimes.
Move on and find someone else.
2006-11-07 10:10:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
A good start is half done.
2006-11-07 11:57:41 · answer #9 · answered by Meeto 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are her real lover, do what she says.
2006-11-07 10:12:15 · answer #10 · answered by Selva 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋