How can i stop being so worried about the way i look and my body when i have sex and get intimite with a guy ?
2006-11-07 01:46:55 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Only have sex with a man that loves you. Someone who loves you won't care about how you look, so you'll have nothing to worry about.
2006-11-07 01:48:59 · answer #1 · answered by medellia1984 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You know what? Hes probably not even gonna be looking at your body in to great a detail, he'll probably just be worrying about how long he will last!!! Trust me, men have just as many hang ups if not more. Just turn the lights off if ur worried, light a few candles instead!
2006-11-07 02:00:44 · answer #2 · answered by mum 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all, if you are having sex with a guy then he must have been attracted to you in someway. And if he didn't run away when you took your clothes off that's another plus too. Just be confident and think that you are worth it and if he doesn't want you then he is not worth it to be with. More times than not, the guy doesn't even notice what you are worried about in the first place, and you acting uncomfortable make make things weird between the two of you.
2006-11-07 01:50:40 · answer #3 · answered by Jenn 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well firstly- It's a fact that if your confident about yourself and your body then men recognise this and find it very attractive! If a man can sense that you feel vunerable then your sending out wrong messages about your weakness, and some could take advantage of this. Take the time to pamper yourself, and do things to up your self esteem, experiment with different underwear and games to help you feel more relaxed!
2006-11-07 01:54:34 · answer #4 · answered by mrsnoname 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alot of these are to try to get you to confront your issue. Try not to be so body conscious, try to walk around the house with less and less clothing on. Im sure you have one feature which is beautiful, evrybody usually has at least one. Try having a shower with your guy, getting dressed in front of him. Progressively make love with more lights/less covers.
Ask your man for an all over massage maybe?
2006-11-07 01:54:17 · answer #5 · answered by budda m 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If someone is having sex with you, then they like you.
Your worries are your problems,
Your not one of those people that wouldn't sleep with a disfigured person regardless of how much you love them are you?
Stop watching too much TV and reading those crap magazines.
If you really don't like the way you look, go for a run (3-4miles) everyother day with lots of sit-ups and push-ups.
Your probally quite fit you know.
2006-11-07 02:03:12 · answer #6 · answered by speedball182 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
by looking at your self and seeing the beautiful things that are unique about you.
you are a special person cos no matter what anyone thinks or says, you are the only one this planet with the body exactly the same as the one you have. you are wonderfully made to perfection.
to compare you to someone else, would be to lower your uniquely perfect standards so you could fit into someone else's. because you are the only you, how can anyone compare you with anyone else?
dont let anyone put you down, you are beautiful, just as you are, and special too.
2006-11-07 02:03:41 · answer #7 · answered by trusted27 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Always have the lights dim because this makes your body look its best bright lights are unforgiving and pick positions that show off your best assests and relax it should be an enjoyable experience for both of you if he loves you he's not gonna be bothered about what you look like.
2006-11-07 01:53:17 · answer #8 · answered by ♥ Jen ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just need a better image of yourself. Ask yourself what is bothering you about your body and what you can do to fix it, like going to the gym or tanning or whatever. Keep in mind that it is only bothering you, because if it bothered the guy, he probably wouldn't have sex with you.
No implants, no diet pills, and no lyposuction. Fake women don't appeal for the long term.
2006-11-07 01:51:25 · answer #9 · answered by three6ty 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
omg....I thought I was the only one that has those issues...I will not allow my guy to see me naked..I just cant..I hate my body..I look good..but I have strecth marks on my belly....because of pregnancy....please if I didnt have strecth marks..forget about it..I would be naked all the time....
if you think that there is 50% chance that you look good then let him see you..it is hard when you are not confident in your body..and I know that some guys get turned off by a women that hides her body..when you are in bed with a man..they want to see all of you..
if you dont have horrible stretch marks...then let him see you
if your breasts are like a 32b through whatever-..then let him see you
if you smell good during sex...then let him see you
if the passion is there..then take advantage
good luck
2006-11-07 02:06:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh sweetheart,if you have got to go this far with your man. its because you fancy the pants off of each other& if he fancies you enough to get intimate with you,its because he wants you ! Please stop worrying about your looks or your body. Consentrate on the job in hand & ENJOY.! Believe me, you will not enjoy if you are elsewhere in your mind. Just enjoy the closeness of being together & understand that if he didnt want you then he would not be there with you. Please enjoy it ! Oh, Good luck.
2006-11-07 01:55:57 · answer #11 · answered by davis.rick@btinternet.com 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋