find it hard to fall in love.
2006-11-07 01:46:05 · 10 answers · asked by eyereneada 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Eyereneob, I don't really believe you have any problem. The only thing I can see as your obstacle in entering into a relationship is probably your timidity or shyness. This may be predicated on your cultural or religious background. The immediate solution to this is that you need a confidant, that is, someone with whom you can share your innermost feelings and experiences with. And I'll strongly suggest that the person should be a guy. That will help you in no small measure to break some barriers between you and guys. I'm a guy, if you think you can repose some confidence in me you may contact me through my profile. But let me say categorically that this is NOT in anyway a device to have a relationship with you but to render some help. So, the choice is yours. Cheers!
2006-11-07 01:56:12 · answer #1 · answered by mykemejeje 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think flexibility is the problem here. Try to be flexible and also the company you keep can inluence you a lot so that you wont believe in men at all.
Try and give the next guy a chance you will be glad you did. Not only that is 25 and not being in a relationship before you go into a relationship you have to first learn how to submit to a man it is very important.
The moment you can submit to a man wow you will see that everything thing relationship wise will fall into place.
Free your self and make your self available for a guy to see you. Avoid PRIDE , AVOID Talking carelessly to a guy.
thanks
2006-11-07 09:57:40 · answer #2 · answered by daniel65ng 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are a lot of reasons why a woman of your age could not start a real relationship. Primarily, your attitude towards other person spell the big problem if you are timid, unfriendly and introvert person. A lot of woman have that "I hate boys" look and most of the times refuse to yield her charm because of personal reservation. Although, the outside look is a big factor for attraction, there are other means of getting some attention. You need not be beautiful to be attractive. I am sure a woman like you knows the basic ABC of how to win the attention of a man. You may not be trying your best yet.
2006-11-07 10:03:02 · answer #3 · answered by proelvispresley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you have problems trusting men. This could be because you've been hurt before, or it could be something to do with the men in your mother's life when you were younger.
Then again, I'm no Sigmund Freud.
Seriously, love is a beautiful thing. If you find it, you should trust your heart and go for it. Of course, there is always the possiblility that you will get hurt, but the heart has an amazing ability to heal itself over time. Good luck.
2006-11-07 09:49:50 · answer #4 · answered by EchoCharlie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm betting your pretty independent. And I'm also betting you like to do what you like to do and screw everyone else (which is not necessarily a bad thing). I think you need to know that it's ok to not be in charge all the time. It's ok to feel vulnerable sometimes.
Or, of course, it just could be it's not time for you to fall in love yet. And when the right one does come, you'll know. I absolutey believe everything happens for a reason and it may be that you're not finding someone yet because you're not SUPPOSED to find someone yet. Wait your turn, you know?
I'm just saying....
2006-11-07 09:53:56 · answer #5 · answered by rogerdbnc 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Falling in love is not something that you make happen; it happens to you. When you meet the right person you will have no choice whether you fall in love or not. In the meantime go about doing things in life that you enjoy. When the right person for you comes along falling in love will be as easy as falling off a cliff (and probably as dangerous). : )
2006-11-07 09:49:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you just haven't found the right one yet. You can't make yourself fall in love...it just happens as you get to know someone. I think you are probably looking for certain things in a mate that you haven't found yet. Take your time....it's the smart thing to do. You will eventually meet the one.
2006-11-07 09:52:37 · answer #7 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think your scared of losing that love it easy to fall in love but very hard to get over it with a broke heart i think your doing that right thing just have fun these days you can;t not trust a guy all men are player and i like that your play it save i wish i had done that
2006-11-07 09:51:00 · answer #8 · answered by maya 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur problem is that its difficult for u to be in a relationship
2006-11-07 09:49:06 · answer #9 · answered by iftikhar a 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's OK you don't want to settle for something less than what you deserve..
2006-11-07 09:56:08 · answer #10 · answered by mmmkay_us 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋