ok i met this guy the other night we talked alot.then we went out on a date last night. we really hit it off great chemistry.. almost too much chemistry actually! so im wondering, how many dates do u normally go on with a guy before you sleep with him?cuz theres ALOT of sexual tension between us.. how long should i make him wait!??
2006-11-07 01:40:20 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it all depends on how long it takes untill you feel like you can trust him. there have been so many times that i slept with a guy on the second date just because the attraction was there, and then he wanted nothing to do with me. personally, i wait for about a month untill i sleep with a guy..... just get to know him a little more, and when you feel like you know him and can trust him, then do it....might be 2 weeks, might be 4 months. just wait to see how long untill you feel secure with him.
2006-11-07 01:45:32 · answer #1 · answered by Ellen 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
As long as you see comfortable sweetie!!! It may be next date, it may take you a few months...just think things over and make sure things will go smoothly and that both are prepared to use protection or a safe method of Birth Control...**** liek that talk to him!!! He may think its too soon as well adn he wants things to be more meaningful, some guys actually think like that, hahah right...well good luck and realx you'll kow when the right time is near!!!
2006-11-07 09:45:34 · answer #2 · answered by lasugarfree 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are just going to throw it out there like that, then why make him wait at all? All I get from what you have written above is that you plan to give it up pretty easy and that you have no value that you place on this relationship other than sex. So if that is the case, why even wait, just go have the sex, let him get what he wants, then when he gets tired of it, he will dump you and move on, because he does not respect you and you have placed no value on your body...
2006-11-07 09:46:39 · answer #3 · answered by Suthern R 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
why do it always have to be about sex, take it slow, I often ask people if you like and fall in love with someone and there is an accident you were both in the accident and your relationship was very strong, you did not get hurt and your friend did ,in fact he is now paralyzed from the waist down and can't preform,(remember you are in love with him , would you now that he not active stay or leave.get to know him as a person not what he can do in bed.or you know what would you want someone to leave you if you don't ,can't have sex with them
2006-11-07 09:51:38 · answer #4 · answered by elizabeth_davis28 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't always rush it when you meet a guy cus if u rush it he will just get what he wants and get out when he want. the more you wait the more he keeps loving you. So wait for a longer time it could be a year or more don't just put sex at first.
thanks
2006-11-07 09:49:04 · answer #5 · answered by daniel65ng 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why does sleeping with someone have to always be rushed...it's like there is some kind of deadline to meet, and then women wonder why the guy doesn't return the phone calls etc. Just have fun getting to know someone first.
2006-11-07 09:46:11 · answer #6 · answered by angeleyes 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i wouldn't go by official dates, but by how long you have known him and hung out with him. It's really about how comfortable you feel with him and how much you trust him. Could be a month, could be a week. You decide.
2006-11-07 09:45:46 · answer #7 · answered by three6ty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just wait and make it special. He will see you diffrently and there is no specific date or time just make it nice and you will know when its time make sure you know him well enough because you just dont know where this guy has been.
2006-11-07 09:56:25 · answer #8 · answered by D'oh! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The answer to your question really depends on how long you want to keep him around. Are you just short-term "fun" for him or do you want to be a long-term companion?
2006-11-07 09:48:09 · answer #9 · answered by Daiquiri Dream 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as possible, if he really likes you he'll wait. And boys seem to like girls that make them wait (don't ask me why).
2006-11-07 09:45:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋