i have a secret desire..its not secret that much coz i have discussed it with my wife...whenever we do intercourse..i fantasize that may my wife have sex with a friend of mine..we both enjoy this fantassy very much..but in real i will never let it happen...in sex we make different stories about him and my wife...m i thinking ordoing is normal or is it my sick mind
2006-11-07 01:39:40 · 7 answers · asked by iftikhar a 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Think about this though, you keep encouraging the idea in your wifes mind and she's gonna want to eventually try it for real with or without your knowledge. Your playing with fire matey.
2006-11-07 01:43:35 · answer #1 · answered by madnesscon 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're not sick, everyone has fantasies. If you ask most psychologists, they will even tell you that fantasizing is healthy to a point. If this is truly something you and your wife want to try, and you and your friend are all comfortable with it, then discuss it and set ground rules. Please just keep in mind that anything you do will forever more change that friendship and you'd have to be willing to accept that.
2006-11-07 10:09:47 · answer #2 · answered by mreheather6 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nah, if you're both into the idea and you and your wife are absolutely sure it won't end in tears, then it's just swinging. You're not sick for thinking or talking about it. However, be very careful. Involve other people and it becomes very complicated. This exact thing happened to me and my ex. Notice the keyword of my previous sentence. She wanted to broaden her horizons with me and decided she would enjoy sticking with that guy instead.
2006-11-07 09:43:46 · answer #3 · answered by Masta Batang Dollar Billz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its entirely normal. It doesn't mean you are gay either. All it means is that you would also want to watch your wife being pleasured rather than doing all the pleasuring. You like the idea of her being pleasured, so even if you don't go through with it, even if you were to be too jealous, you still like the thought of it.
2006-11-07 09:44:23 · answer #4 · answered by laislinns 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey it's your life, and if both you and your wife enjoy the fantasy then that's OK
2006-11-07 09:41:32 · answer #5 · answered by sparkleythings_4you 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
a lot of guys fantasize that. we're dogs, what can i say?
2006-11-07 09:42:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
ummmmm and,,,, what was your guestion!
2006-11-07 09:45:05 · answer #7 · answered by Tonya Sizemore 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋