Okay, anywho, I am not doing very well in this first quarter of 8th grade. One of my teachers, who I hate, gave me a low grade on a 70 point project and now wants me to call her! Only problem is I worked on it the morning before the class and came in late. I pretended I had a doctor's appointment. Secondly, there is this guy that I have gone out with twice, we split then got back together, well I still like him, but he is going with one of my friends. NOT ONLY THAT, but he keeps on asking me if I want to have sex with him. I am trying to do better this quarter, but I am just losing it. Oh right, I have depression and no one knows except some of my friends, so I have been kind of sluggish lately and it is so hard to do this. I am getting a pschological test, you know when they try to figure out your learning style and what not, but I'm afraid of what is going to happen. I just feel like giving up and commiting suicide. Without the pain. PLEASE HELP.
2006-11-07 01:27:27 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
Nothing is worth giving up your life.
Seeking counseling is a good idea, there are many places where you don't need parental permission. If you are entertaining suicide you need to do this ASAP.
Do not have sex with this boy...he is taking advantage of your feeling bad about yourself.
Talk to the teacher...explain that you will work on your performance and do better in the future. Be bright and brief.
Many kids have trouble dealing with adolescence, it is a hard time. It will get better, believe that. In the meantime, don't let people take advantage of your hard time. Take care of you and the rest will take care of itself.
2006-11-07 01:32:58 · answer #1 · answered by Barbara 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Too young for all that drama. First, dump the guy. Someone who would try to sleep with u while they r dating ur friend is not someone u want to be attached to. Second, don't have sex. It will only complicate things. Everytime ur period is late, u'll stress about being pregnant. Depression among teens is common. Too many hormones doing too many things at once. Tell ur parents. Ur friends can't getu the help u need, especially if ur contemplating suicide. All kids eventually have to go through it. It's part of growing up. Things will get better, hang in there.
((((hug))))
2006-11-07 01:34:44 · answer #2 · answered by dragonkisses 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
first of all talk to your mom about your teacher, and your depressed feelings. second being 12 is WAY TO YOUNG to have sex tell this guy to go away and warn your friend about him.
grade 8 is only the beginning of hard work in school. you are going through a lot of mental and physical changes right now your mom has been there and knows how you feel. if you cant talk to your mom then go to your aunt or a friends mom. why does the teacher want you to call her? unless she sees what you are going through and wants to help. suicide is NOT the answer. Life is hard at times and sometimes it feels like it will only get worse but it will get better. PLEASE TALK TO SOMEONE !!!
2006-11-07 01:49:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You would get a kind of hidden cameras and after she does/says her nasty little deed/comment (cover it wherein you realize she is going to snoop round and say or do anything like what you've got stated) while you are on my own with hubby exhibit him simply what she did/mentioned and notice how he reacts. If he is nonetheless on her facet then I'm afraid the one different choices I see is counseling (which I do not feel will paintings) or divorce. If he needs her greater than you permit him have her. You'll be higher off in the end.
2016-09-01 08:38:00 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This may sound a bit simplistic,but bear with me.You`re too young for sex,you could wind up with something fatal,like a child.
Concentrate on your studies,that`s the most important thing in your life.Learn to be with happy with yourself,cause thru it all,
that`s who you have to rely on!Read some books,expand your interests,and horizons.Be well,good luck,enjoy your youth,
it passes too quickly.
2006-11-07 02:46:55 · answer #5 · answered by Rich B 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋