I have been with my boyfriend for a year and a half. He has two male friends that he grew up with and hangs out with them every Saturday night, he claims he's 24, he's young and he just needs time to hang or go out with the guys once a week. Is this normal? Am i wrong for being upset?
2006-11-07 01:27:25 · 15 answers · asked by ELLE 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Because chicks are so damn crazy!! We need testostorone to bring us back to our senses. LOL. What's wrong with hanging with the boys ONE night in a week? Yes it's normal...unless he's gay.
2006-11-07 01:31:56 · answer #1 · answered by Marsnandes 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No not if he spends most of his time with you. It's normal for guys to wanna hang out. In all fairness, i'm sure you like to hang out with your female friends every now and then, so to your boyfriend. Every good relationship needs a lil time out so as to make time for others who are also close to you so don't feel insecure or think that he loves you any less cause it's only once a week for a few hours that he's away from you plus you know where he is so you need not worry and I can assure you that when he is with his buddies, most of the time he's either thinking about you or talking good things about you with them so your'e definitely not forgotten.
2006-11-07 09:41:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys need guy time... we scratch n fart n drink beer, we play darts, pool or playstation. We talk about sex, the "hot chick we saw 2day" and about cars or bikes. These r things that 'most' girls are not interested in and we dont want our or, our friends conversation and bodily functions 2 offend you.Do u have "girls nights out"? or nights that u dont invite b/f to? Did your b/f get the dirts last time u went 2 a hens night or a baby shower? If u think he is doing the dirty come down on him like a ton of bricks but if he just wants 2 hang out with his mates once a week cut him some slack.
2006-11-07 09:36:40 · answer #3 · answered by harleyrigid80 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course your not wrong... everyone needs some loving.... but see there is this thing with guys where it is like a food chain. The coolest are at the top and the lamest at the bottom. The only way to move up to cool is to hang out with friends and become more affable. The closer you are to "cool" friends the closer you are to being "cool"... it is like a natural instinct for guys. It is completely normal even middle-aged men (like my dad) do it. Just let him and don't be afraid to confront him about more "you time" with him. He's your man and you want to love him.
2006-11-07 09:33:56 · answer #4 · answered by movie guru, tv master 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not wrong, because you have your reasons to be upset. He's taking up the best day of the week (saturday) to hang out with his friends. He should dedicate his entire weekend to you. Let him spend the weekdays with his friends. But weekend (starting from fridays) are all your time. You have a right to be upset. I totally agree with you!! Talk to him and arange something that both of you will be happy with!
2006-11-07 09:32:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
at 24 this is very normal.my guy does this as well.you have to realize that these mates have been there a lot longer than you, so they do take priority.in fact 1ce a week is very little time. i know it is hard at first, but why dont you make it a girly night then? absences make the heart grow fonder. after a while he will realize it is more fun to hang out with you!
2006-11-07 09:48:06 · answer #6 · answered by chickyboo222 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't you ever hang with your girlfriends?? Or did you just toss them to the curb when the first guy that threw you some attention came into your world??
Change your tune honey because you're too too clingy and insecure. Get a life of your own before you piss him off and he tosses YOU to the curb.
2006-11-07 09:34:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He likes the whole male bonding thing. You are a woman and perhaps u should have some time with your girlfriends.
2006-11-07 11:17:12 · answer #8 · answered by Jim G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its the same wit girls........u gotta hav time away from ur bf/gf otherwise u'll go crazy.......besides ud end up feelin suffocated if u do absolutely EVERYTHING together......not good :P
stop being so paranoid, and try going out wit ur own friends once in a while :)
2006-11-07 09:33:42 · answer #9 · answered by sexy_chill 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everyone needs space now and then, respect it. how would you feel if you wanted to hang out with your girls and he didnt like it.
Loosen up the control issue and enjoy life.
2006-11-07 09:34:06 · answer #10 · answered by scottb03gt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋