If someone broke up with you, sure...you're not happy about it, but what's the point in spending more time and energy on them? Doesn't just prove that you're giving them too much power over you? Why does making them, and innocents caught in the crossfire, miserable do for you?
2006-11-07 01:24:36 · 14 answers · asked by Le_Roche 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
because you have that sense in your soul, that it's; get even or
get worse then he did to you and by letting yourself do that he has entire control over you
2006-11-07 01:31:26 · answer #1 · answered by Isaiah C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's no point in seeking revenge. Sometimes, the best way 2 get revenge is to leave your ex alone and show them that your life goes on with or without them. Sometimes your mate might threaten to leave u 2 see how u will react. The worst thing u can do is fight to be with someone who doesn't want 2 be with u. If they want u they'll stay with u, if not, there are many more fish in the pond 2 choose from, so cut em loose & fish 4 another. Beyonce's "Irreplaceable" song best describes what im talkin about
2006-11-07 09:31:36 · answer #2 · answered by Joslyn M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're right. Revenge is like saying " I do care about you. I love you so much that you can actually hurt me and I want to hurt you too."
The best revenge is no revenge AT ALL! Just act like they can't hurt you, keep a smile on your face and keep up with life as usual. If that person cares about you, they will be fuming that you are not hurt or mad or sad or crazy! I've tried this lots of times after break-ups and it makes men so mad!
I once had a boyfriend that was like "You walk around with a smile, you must have never loved me anyway!" I was like "Maybe!". He was so pissed after that and then tried to get me back. I was like " Please!"
2006-11-07 09:29:27 · answer #3 · answered by Falina T. Rayon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with you. You lost. Period. Move on to the next conquest. Revenge is for petty people. Doesn't do much in the way of making you feel any better. All it does is continue making you miserable. Forget it and carry on.
2006-11-07 09:31:08 · answer #4 · answered by Jayme C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOu're right, you shouldnt try getting revenge on what they did to you. Karma will take care of it. Besides you really shouldnt give that person any more attention, they did dump you.
2006-11-07 09:27:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is something that is as old as hurt is. Can't explain but right now I feel that the most urgent thing for me to do is to screw all her friends because she cheated on me with a man who knew me and was her wormate. That should hurt her to some extend, even if not to the level she hurt me.
2006-11-07 09:29:35 · answer #6 · answered by kombo6m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't...i don't lower myself to let them see I'm hurt...I move on and let them see that there was no love lost in the situation....there are a lot of better fish out in the sea!!!!
2006-11-07 09:29:04 · answer #7 · answered by Sammyleggs222 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Living well is the best revenge. You are correct.
2006-11-07 09:26:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i don't think it's important to seek revenge, i think it's just a knee-jerk reaction.
if you wait a little while the desire to destroy their life will ebb away.
2006-11-07 09:28:18 · answer #9 · answered by marie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ben Franklin said:
Whatever is begun in anger
ends in shame.
2006-11-07 09:26:42 · answer #10 · answered by mimi22 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋