Last night my boyfriend (of only 4 months) was acting oddly when on my computer so i checked the history and this is what i found. I'll shorten it but this long messaging back and forth between him and some girl it was innocent enough at first with them talking about tattoos and movies then two things struck me.
He called her sweetie at one point, and hes not one for pet names. and the last reply he made was "i dunno how to type this without sounding like a ******* pervert but you're kinda cute. "
We're still a new couple, he knows im paranoid about cheating, he spends almost all day everyday with me because he calls me constantly, lately he's been talking about moving in with me because its closer to his new job...
should i worry should i say somethign to him? I was snooping and i know thats bad so if i do tell him i know should i lie about HOW? I know this doesnt seem like much buit hes not a really affectionate guy so things like this are a lot for him.
2006-11-07 01:23:16 · 16 answers · asked by attila 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well if that was me well first i would say look i was on my computer and i saw that you where writing to some one and i could help my self and read it i realy dont like the fact your talk to some girl and caling her cute. they if you think his explanation is not making sence or he gets mad at you just move on hun you can find some better if he is talking to some other girl now what do you think he will do later i realy would just recoment to leave or just folow your hart
2006-11-07 01:36:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-01 08:37:57 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off he was on your computer so don't even let him play the "snooping through my stuff" card. Second you as a human deserve an answer to this. He may have a resonable trustworthy response to your questions. If you let this go it will eat you up so I think you should politly ask him and evaluate his answers. There is no need to accuse him right off the bat.
2006-11-07 01:29:33 · answer #3 · answered by Mark S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Snooping on your partner is WRONG. I know, because I did it myself, & it got me NOWHERE.
I think what he did was wrong too, but not necessarily cheating. If I were you I would talk to him, & ask him if it's right for him to be on-line chatting with a strange girl, while you sit alone in another part of the house? If he wants to get off talking to a girl, then shouldn't that girl be YOU?
2006-11-07 01:30:12 · answer #4 · answered by No More 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say get rid of him he is using you, what he wrote to the other girl on the net is cheating to me cause why talk to other girls about how cute they are when you are in a relationship, also the sneaky way he acts when you are near the computer tells me he is up to no good, who knows what he doe's when your not around!
2006-11-07 01:31:46 · answer #5 · answered by missy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont waste your time with a guy who plays games like this. Its pathetic... PLUS... You will surely find someone better. NExt time you meet a guy you like..> Find out if he has EVER IN HIS LIFE cheated... If he has.. MOVE ON. ONCE A CHEATER ALWAYS A CHEATER... Guys who dont cheat, however... are MUCH MORE LIKELY to never cheat. I wish I had known this when I was younger... would have saved some heart ache, but I've figured it out and it works!
2006-11-07 01:28:33 · answer #6 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He was on YOUR computer. That's not really snooping to check your own computer. He was at YOUR place chatting with some random chick on YOUR computer. And telling her she's cute, etc? You have every right to be pi$$ed. Confront him. And soon. Before he moves in with you. He's looking.
2006-11-07 01:28:49 · answer #7 · answered by Lotus 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would definately ask your fella about this because if he was totally happy and satisfied with you, he wouldnt be chatting to another girl in such a flirtatious manner! However it might have just been an innocent friendly comment, but yeah, your right to question his comitment with him doing this!
2006-11-07 01:30:02 · answer #8 · answered by mrsnoname 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
jeez.....can sumone say "suffocate"???? listen girl u jus need 2 bak off a bit......let him see he can trust u not 2 freak out about lil things.....sure he called her sweetie and cute but if u act paranoid all the time hes gonna get sick of it......let him be and if he cheats then he cheats.........u cant change someone no matter how much of a tight leash u keep on him......and if u let him be free without constantly worrying and nagging then he'll have more respect for u and wont WANT to cheat
jus giv him space hun.....like i said if he cheats he cheats.....then u know he aint good for u :)
2006-11-07 01:29:34 · answer #9 · answered by sexy_chill 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
he's got something up his sleeve and I don't mean his arm, he sounds slick, and insecure don't let him move in its to soon ,you are just getting to know him, does not sound like he is for you honestly and respect and communication is the key to a good relationship.Good Luck
2006-11-07 01:36:42 · answer #10 · answered by elizabeth_davis28 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋