2006-11-07 00:17:43 · 24 answers · asked by Cece 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes, break up with him. No reason is a good reason
2006-11-07 00:18:43 · answer #1 · answered by The Pilot 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My boyfriend cheated on me too but he was so drunk that the girl actually had to tell him herself... I stayed with him. Its hard for a awhile but i loved him too much to let him go. Maybe I am a fool and maybe ill regret it but if you never try then you never know, At the end of the day you must remember everything happens for a reason. Its just up to you now if you want to take the risk and give him a chance... Good Luck.x
2006-11-07 01:31:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like a worrying type of guy. i does not strive against with this woman anymore. Your existence has change right into a viscious circle of struggling with, forgiving, hoping and being disillusioned back and back. sometime, she is going to ought to face on her own 2 ft. even although you probably did not recommend to, you've enabled her to proceed to be immature, make negative alternatives, and nonetheless be taken decrease back in. i'd ease out of this relationship over the subsequent various months. i imagine in case you enable go of your anger and frustration, you'd be able to adhere it out some more effective months. i'd in all likelihood clarify to her that there is an end of the line and also you'll be making different plans once the employ is up. At that aspect, you've achieved more effective than maximum men would do to confirm that she's ok. I understand you for that. yet please do not enable her drag you down anymore.
2016-11-28 21:13:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's totally up to you. It depends on how solid you feel your relationship is or was, and I guess it depends on the reason. I can't imagine a reason that would make you confident it'll never happen again, but then again I'm not in your situation. If you do decide to continue with the relationship, it will take a long time for you to trust him again. Neither of you should expect that it will be easy. Good luck!
2006-11-07 00:20:32 · answer #4 · answered by Mary C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest you break up with him and end the relationship. Some things in relationships can be forgiven and will not always linger in your head. In the future you will always suspect and never trust, that is not good. When you break up and look back after you get over him you will realize it was a good decision.
Break your ties and move on, it may be difficult but in my opinion it is the best thing to do.
I was in a relationship with someone who cheated on me and I forgave her, she cheated again and eventually I divorced her.
2006-11-07 00:33:41 · answer #5 · answered by electroplating23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because he told you about it does not make it alright. What if there is something he has not told you? Suppose he only told you because it didnt turn out the way he expected and next time things go his way do you think he will tell you? I dont think so, so what was he thinking when he decided to cheat on you? Just dump him, he doesnt deserve you.
2006-11-07 00:32:44 · answer #6 · answered by chillie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what does Ur heart say... the reason he did it..... is that solved...
there is no good reason for cheating..... if U have to cheat just get out of the relationship...... do U think he would have taken U back if U had cheated..... and gave a reason.....
2006-11-07 00:22:48 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it's difficult to give up on someone you care for, and the choice is really up to you.
By giving him another chance to salvage this relationship, you may be opening yourself up to further heartbreak.
By giving up on him, you may feel worse to begin with for a couple of weeks or months, but in the long run, better for you.
So weigh your choices, because sometimes you may only be in love with the notion of love. And nobody should be made to feel this way.
2006-11-07 01:12:12 · answer #8 · answered by Jon 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you should break up with him. Once a cheater, always a cheater. Remember, the first time you are a victim, the second time you're a volunteer.
2006-11-07 00:25:01 · answer #9 · answered by arrizona 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the extenuating circumstances. Are you married or dating? Did he offer the info or did he get caught and then confessed?
Telling you yes or no is impossible but suggesting you look at things like his character and your capacity for forgiveness are good places to start.
2006-11-07 00:23:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋