2006-11-07 00:15:29 · 36 answers · asked by life_vamp 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dont get me wrong i dont mean 'men' i meant a certain man, yeah we have to take responsibility for our own lives but when you put so much in to a relationship and your partner just shows his ignorance what are you supposed to do?
2006-11-07 00:25:36 · update #1
Get out of the relationship if it is getting you down....after all whats the point if he doesnt put the effort in & it isnt enjoyable anymore?? You will find someone who appreciates you !!!
Hard i know but you will be glad when you find that person. I thought i would never fall in love again and what do ya know??? Outta the blue!!
Good Luck
2006-11-07 03:07:45 · answer #1 · answered by Mark 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just gotta be careful with the man you are dealing with others are out there to use you and run away, mark this as a reawakening from the slumber(past), i mean an eye openner, otherwise there are serious guys out there ready and committed to the relationship. All the best.
2006-11-07 00:41:31 · answer #2 · answered by DM FORMULAR 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry,but if you let certain men-(NOT all men i hasten to add!)-treat you like a carpet,then they WILL walk all over you.I have had this "carpet treatment" several times in my life,from WOMEN-so it works both ways m'dear-its not just a man thing.Best thing to do is pick yourself up,brush yourself down and carry on with your life.Easier said than done,i know-but you as a person will become stronger because of these experiences,and will learn from them.Best of..:-)
2006-11-07 00:39:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think you can't handle the situation anymore,you can either talk it over with him and see what will his reaction be or else if there nothing can be done anymore,just leave him then.
It's your life,so you have to be strong and brave to stand up for yourself.
I am not against you nor am I trying to defence the men but I am sure you would agree that not everyone are the same,right!?
2006-11-07 00:48:44 · answer #4 · answered by Simba's Rose Bud 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do some Women mess up men's lives?
Simple answer..Anyone can mess up your life if you let them.
I think it would have been better to ask "Why do i let men mess up my life?" and not stating they mess up everyones like its a fact.
And what is this the she b*tch man haters club around here?
2006-11-07 00:23:17 · answer #5 · answered by . 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men, or anyone, cant mess up your life unless you allow them to do so. If a man or men are messing up your life, then why do you let them? Finish with them and move on.
2006-11-07 00:18:03 · answer #6 · answered by Caroline 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
it is not just men messing up life females can do a damn good job of it as well in the form of livin a lie for many years with there partners so please do not put us all in the same book yes it works both ways
2006-11-07 00:20:17 · answer #7 · answered by wombat4412 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Men don't know what they're doing. They observe things on a very black and white level and try to avoid the emotional aspects of life that a woman feels. On top of this, rather than accepting or trying to adapt to the way a woman feels, they feel we are inferior for the way we operate emotionally. It's a sad game, but I honestly believe that a lot of men don't realise they're doing it. If you let them just chug along believing that they're right - then trust me - women will be fine and the man will be happy.
2006-11-07 00:17:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋
you have a choice, like you always had, continue or leave. you have to think carefully of course. but if you were to talk it over with the man, and really be truthful to him, and he to you, you could salvage this relationship. or if you and the other party hasn't even started, then you can just continue, talk to him, and tell him how you feel?
2006-11-07 00:58:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should stand up for yourself for once anfd put him in line. When Ifirst started dating my current boyfriend he used to be rude sumtimes and acting like boss untill one day i put my foot down and stood up. Not only did he love it but he realised i wasnt taking no sh** off him no more. It truely works. Try it!!!
2006-11-07 01:36:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋