I NEED BIG TIME HeLP!!!!!!?

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I need BIG TIME help?
okay, there's this girl i like at school and i like her a lot. She knows that i like her along with the whole entire school. im positive i had a chance at the start of the year, but now its gone way down and she doesnt like me AT ALL. she thinks im a stalker cause i go wherever she goes and never talk to her cause i can never figure out what to say (we have exactly the same friends and we know each other pretty well) so now im like way down in the hole and i like her too much to let her go. if you have an idea for like a "comeback" (like in sports when you're down by 2 touchdowns in the fourth quarter) please list that. im a freshman in highschool so the "comeback" idea you have can last a couple years or sumtin. dont list negative comments cause they put my self esteem down, lol. again, she doesnt really like me, and i want to literally grab her attention towards me! i need ur help so plz help ME!!!!!!! ANYTHING WOULD BE GREAT

Answer 1

you should apologize [even though your not wrong] but if she thinks your a stalker apologize and ask her to hang out with you...after hanging out for a while ask her to hang out one day BUT make it REALLY special and at the end of the day ask her to go out with you...but be sweet and charming and don't be rude...things will work out don't worry =]

Answer 2

Hey

Well the key thing here is, dont look desperate! As i understand it, you both know each other quite well. She doesnt like the extra attention you are giving her, and you want her to be urs.....

every girl loves attention, but we hate being given tooooo much of it. Such examples can be constant staring, this is really anoying. If you like her, just take time in getting to know her on a different level, theres no point in telling her you like her, because she already knows!

Secondly, dont always be in her view, avoid going out to every where she may be, and if she is there by any chance, then share your attnetion equally, to everyone in the versinity. Do not talk to her every time you see here. sometimes a smile will be enough.

When you are chilling together, talk about things that dont revolve around relationships. Talk about other interests, events, concerts (youve not stated how old you are; im assuming ur 14/15)

And revenge is not an issue. If she doesnt like you in that way, then stay good friends. you never know, people that one may not take a fancy to now, will later in years to come. Ive seen this first hand, on many occasions. Sometimes you have to let it go, because everyone has a time to shine, and then defiantly do, at so, and maybe many times in their lifes (Godwilling)

Answer 3

Your mistake was trying too hard. Give her some space, apologise for the stalking and start beind the best at what u do. That is, if u think she can like u. Do what u do best, since u are too shy, tell a friend to tell her how it is, but it should not be obvious that u send the msg. Get feetback from the friend and you will know if u have to impress her or leave her.

Answer 4

ever heard absence make the heart grow fonder? maybe try avoiding her for a while so that she "misses" you. Maybe you could try making her jealous? find another girl and take her out and spoil her and show your girl what a good guy you are..also, watch the movie "hitch" with will smith, he had some good ideas!

Answer 5

Ya, my friend had a guy in our grade who stalks her and she has a boyfriend. If you really want her to like you... then maybe stop stalking her and be yourself. Good luck wit everything.

Answer 6

okk... well.... honnestly... i think the best way to get a chik is hard to get.. do u hav any hot female frenz? if u do... it wud b really good for u... jus chill wt her a lott... n flirt harmlessly wt her (but make sure u tell her tht u mite do it so she doesnt think tht ur comin on to her or something like tht) mayb u guys can start tellin ppl ur datin or sumthing( if ur really tht desperate) anywys... so wen this chik sees tht ur not tht in love wt her anymore.. she ll start to feel weird.. like... wat haoppened? i thought he was inlove wt me n stakkin me.. n now he moved on? she ll get so like.. upset... n start to feel like shes really not th hot anymore... n she'll start thinkin abt it.. n hence start thinkin abt u... and in this time... wenever u chill wt her... do really sweet things for the other girls around u... like if her best frend gets sik or something... jus show up at her house with flowers... n all the sweet things u do for her frenz will eventually get bak to her n she'll start thinkin... wow... wat a sweet guy... trust me it happened to me before (im a chik... im jus usin my bfs account) anywys.. good luk wt tht... and even if it doesnt work out.... ur still in high skool... i mean.. uni is the besttt.... im in my first year n i jus broke up wt my ex bf of 2 yrs n i thought id b soo depressed... but i found someone new so quikly... seriously... dun get urself depressed abt it... im sure if u talk to her one day u'll realzie she aint all tht... it happened a kazillion times to me b4... anywys.. good luk again...