what can i dop to make him understand that i love only him
2006-11-06 23:38:14 · 6 answers · asked by zee 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's probably right in the long-term.
2006-11-06 23:40:39 · answer #1 · answered by rosbif 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi,
I was almost in a long distance relationship.
The guy I loved was supposed to move but he didn't.
In any event.. to me it wouldn't have made a difference becuse even though we live 20 minutes apart.. sometimes months would pass before we next see each other due toi hectic work schedules etc.
But we talk everyday like gospel on the phone.
He's actually closer to me than many of the people that I see everyday.
Tell him not to obsess over the fact that you are not there physically and if you truly love him you would keep goodon not entertaining other guys.
in fact, whenever other guys make a pass at me I usually tell my baby.
I say "These guys have to be crazy... they justdon't know whop they're messing with."
Also remind him of all the reasons why he is the one for you and why no one else will do.
Often times, saying "I love you" is just like saying "The dog barks" because that's what it is.. it is just words so that often time when people say them they don't feel any closer or connected to that special someone.
You should still tell him so he knows though but I always say the best kind of love is demonstrated.
Maybe not by sex but sending him a present in the mail, a series of pleasant surprises.
Like eg. My baby's finally on vacation but we couldn't go anywhere because I'm not due for a vaction till Christmas. I'm taking a day off to spend it with him even though it will be hard for me. I knew he was feeling shitty the other day so I sent him roses at work.
It lifted his spirits like that.
I hope things work out.
Cheers!!!
2006-11-07 07:55:27 · answer #2 · answered by ilyena 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you love him and only him.
With long distance relationships, there are going to be times when you can't help but doubt, and no matter what you tell yourself, there's always a sort of hopelessness that blinds you from your partner's love. These times pass, whether it be minutes or days, or even weeks. Don't worry- if you truly love each other, it will be temporary, and your love will be stronger for surviving.
2006-11-07 07:43:40 · answer #3 · answered by Link 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that trying really hard to convince someone will only make things even worse, so i think you should just let nature/fate play it's part. if it's meant to happen it will happen you guys will probably last longer. have faith in the relationship and stay positive and don't ever doubt yourself please if you doubt yourself everyone else will. your bf's trust in you shows how they feel about you trust me on that if you can. wishing you all the luck with the relationship.!! sweetie pie!
2006-11-07 07:49:05 · answer #4 · answered by sweetie pie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can just keep telling him that u love him no matter what...
but honestly long distance relationships dont always work out well.
2006-11-07 07:41:54 · answer #5 · answered by drtmvs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u might get sick of his untrust,,so tell him that u are going to pack all ur stuff and move it into his house asap,,so he will stop worrying..but tell him u have to marry quickly
2006-11-07 07:48:28 · answer #6 · answered by native,pride 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋