Should I press him to see what happens or should I let him go?

Question

I've started dating a guy who was working in some improvements in my house. Since the very beginning, he told me he was dating someone else (for three months or so). I told him that it was ok, and if he wanted to stick to his relationship it was fine by me, but then he said that we could be friends (something I don't think could be possible 'cause I like him sooooo much). He keeps saying that who knows where the road can leads us, and maybe we could be something else. We have kissed each other, and, by the way it seems, I can tell he likes me. I have told him that right know I don't really mind if he is dating somebody else 'cause we are just starting, and if it the things get serious, then, we will see, but everytime I'm with him, he keeps telling me the same old history about his girlfriend, but then, he kisses, and I'm getting bored of it....I think he is not clear about his feelings about this girl... What should I do? Should I press him to see what happens or should I let him go

Answer 1

HONESTLY. I think you should let it GO!!!!! If he can do that to his girlfriend, think about it......you know he has another girl and he is letting YOU JUSTIFY THAT CHEATING ON HER IS OK . and if you hook up,,,,,,,,will the other girl JUSTIFY HIM CHEATING ON YOU???????? you are being played, and you don't even relize it. He is a jerk! Why would you settle for someone that cannot be faithful to the one he is with?????? Only to turn around and do it to you???? He keeps telling you those things, because he thinks it is ok and you don't want to take it any further, and the girl friend will never find out. How would you feel if it were you waiting for him to come home, and he was working somewhere, kissing someone else, and you had no IDEA!!!!!


You deserve someone who is honest, and can be only yours. You don't have to share, and shouldn't......MOVE ON.......Get with someone who is single......A kiss could lead to alot of other things, and what will you do when it does, and you are deeply attatched to him, and he says (AND HE WILL) You knew I had a girlfriend?????

THINK ABOUT IT!!!!!

good luck, DAPHNE

Answer 2

You should be ashamed of yourself, he has told you that he has a girlfriend and that should have been enough. And you keep coming on to him and trying to make him choose between you and the girlfriend. What you just want him to cheat on his girlfriend and then you think he will be with you? Are you listening to the voice of your conscience or do you not have one? Read your own question and you will see how silly and immature you come across. Leave that man alone and move on and find someone who is available. God bless

Answer 3

Well, my dear, it depends.... you didn't tell if the guy is shy or something, so I don't know if it's a very good idea to push too hard on him or not. Maybe you should give some time to the relationship and see what happens. Good luck!

Answer 4

Lucky guy...he has 2 girls waiting on the line. This guy has a girlfriend he is cheating on with you or does she know about you? I don't know, I guess if you are willing to take leftovers it's ok but I think this guy is using you to get what he wants.I think once it gets to sex, he'll disappear back to his other girl. If he's doing it to her...he'll do it to you.

Answer 5

He's already cheating on the other girl so what makes you think he won't do the same to you if you get together.

Answer 6

Sorry to tell you this, but let him go. Think about it like this: he is "cheating" on her, so he will dump her for you, you guys are happy for a while, untill he dumps you for sum other girl. If he can do this to one girl he can do it to you...........think with your brains and not with your heart

Answer 7

let the 2 timing playa goooooooo

Answer 8

Shut him up with sex, and see how things go...