she keep tryin 2 keep us apart
2006-11-06 23:26:19 · 24 answers · asked by booky 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ignore her...
2006-11-06 23:27:34 · answer #1 · answered by m m 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I go through this. It's really difficult. However the more a parent will try to control their kid, especially with their relationships, the more the child will try and go out of their way to be with that other person.
Try being nicer. One of my issues was that it was too close with the her ex that the rest of the family got along with.
Don't bend yourself over backwards for the woman, just be nice and accept it. You are there to love your boyfriend, not his mother. This suggestion doesn't mean that you shouldn't be a kind and courteous person to her. But if she keeps giving you hell, you'll simply just need to deal with it, or ask your boyfriend to defend you a bit.
2006-11-06 23:33:14 · answer #2 · answered by jlrgds 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's probably scared of losing him, and is afraid that you'll be his number one priority and she'll be sidelined. Show her that you're not out to steal her son, and that your intentions are not to keep him away from her. That you love him just as much as she loves him and you want the best for him. She'll come to realize it sooner or later or will accept you. Maybe also try and find things you have in common with her, (there must be something!) make an effort to get to know her, be genuinely interested.
good luck
2006-11-06 23:33:33 · answer #3 · answered by laska 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have a one-on-one chat with her without your BF being present or else he would be torned between the two of you. Ask your BF's mother what it is that's bothering her about you. Ask her for guidance to improve on those areas. Build on that relationship and soon trust will seep in. Good luck!
2006-11-06 23:29:27 · answer #4 · answered by SingGirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look there are alot of these kind of women maybe she thinks that u wanna take his son away u have two ways i think:1.know about the things she love buy her gift or sth like this to show that u don't have any problem with her
2.if u know that ur boy friend perefer u to her and he really loves u and of courtse u love him too don't pay attention at all and know that a lover stands everything to keep her love
take care and bye
2006-11-06 23:36:05 · answer #5 · answered by N0t Known Never Ever 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The gf of my brother have the same problem
She began to be more nice and polite with her
than my mom is accepting her more little by little
and ignore her whatever she says
do not let her make you guys break-up
good luck
hope that help you
2006-11-06 23:49:11 · answer #6 · answered by Marianne S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Show respect to her because she is his mother and be the better person. Don't take it personal. She is showing a little jealousy due to the fact that you're taking away from her attention with her son.
2006-11-06 23:41:22 · answer #7 · answered by andie 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do not back down. It took 2-3 yrs. and now my boyfriends mom loves me and vice versa.
2006-11-06 23:50:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself and be respectful to her. Kill her with kindness, and absolutely do not say anything bad about her to your boyfriend. No matter how wrong she may be. Good luck and God bless
2006-11-06 23:31:06 · answer #9 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take the time to find out why she dislikes you, then you can work on trying to correct whatever she finds so offensive about you.
2006-11-06 23:29:38 · answer #10 · answered by grandm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be patient and try to be as polite as possible and she will come around with time
2006-11-06 23:27:41 · answer #11 · answered by Mica 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋