i wanna know why can't i till now find a good guy,resposible,succesful,fairly cute,religious,who would care for me and be willing to share responsibility with me.
am i too romantic ,i have no idea what nice guys are looking for these days in a girl.
don't get me wrong i had a number of suiters but i never feel anything for them.what really frustrates me is that i always like guys who don't like me.and is it really fate if u find ur match or do people work on the subject till they get the one they like.
i m almost 27,never been in a real relation with potential,i m fairly pretty,successful,relegious,people say i m sociable of an attractive charecter.
i never thaught i could talk this open on public may be coz of my eastren culture but i need other openions to learn from ,may be i m making some mistake without seeing it.
2006-11-06 22:04:57 · 11 answers · asked by h 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Women who fall for guys who don't like them are usually women who are really afraid of commitment. One of my relatives is like that, but she often gets her guy eventually and then decides she didn't want him. First thing you need to do is figure out if you really want a relationship now, or if you just feel you should have one "because everybody else does" or some other reason. If you're content being single, there's nothing wrong with that.
When you are sure you want to get involved with someone, you should be where you can meet potential mates -- as you're religious, at church (not necessarily your own -- go to other churches, alone if you have to). Take a course in something if you can. Dancing, maybe? Or photography. Anything that will get you out and among others. And it's fine to be modest if that's how you feel naturally, but don't be shy. Self confidence is attractive to the opposite sex. Develop your confidence. Like who you are, and let that show.
Best of luck to you!
2006-11-07 03:24:36 · answer #1 · answered by Sweetchild Danielle 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you are just unlucky for now. You seem to have a pretty specific type of guy and relationship in mind, that doesn't seem impossible just extremely rare, so I say just keep trying until it begins to seem that you may need to lower your standards just a little at a time until you find the next best thing, give it a few more years
2006-11-06 22:11:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I share those same feelings myself. But you know what? Stop looking for THE ONE. You wont find it that way. Live your life, Make new friends. Don't think of relationships or commitments. Not yet, anyway. They will come to you.
Tip: Never show them you are desperate for a relationship with the perfect guy. They will run.
2006-11-06 22:09:31 · answer #3 · answered by Eury Peima 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, i believe that for evey woman there s a man god has speciallly created, as well, for every man there s a woman God has specially created. I also believe that they must meet, soon or later, they ll meet,, and wen they meet, somthin never felt b4 will be felt frm each side, that time each one should be sure that a great lov is in the heart of the other,, get me?
2006-11-06 22:11:23 · answer #4 · answered by Mudhefar M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is where you can't look for it. Love is where you can't find by searching. Love is wherever you can see. But seems to be far away to you for just now. Hope you find what you look for.
But the more expectations you have the harder to find it. Just wake up and live your day. You can find it when you give up looking for it.
2006-11-06 22:09:56 · answer #5 · answered by takeiteasy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
focus first on love from above-not sensual above spiritual above and you will be totally happy then an earthly true love is a bonus but you will be content -not seeking a person to fulfull the need of your soul-in Jesus amazing grace with John 3 that saved a wretch like me :D
2006-11-06 22:10:17 · answer #6 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Search your heart. Thats where you find love.
2006-11-06 22:27:59 · answer #7 · answered by logman686 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
and you are looking on Yahoo Questions! Sir, you are a complete wanker.........(and obviously asian sub continet) so the odds are against you
2006-11-06 22:06:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no love for others,,,,,,,,each person loves only itself and this is the truth........so don't waste your time in search of love.....yes you can follow the rules of society.....get married and have children........and enjoy relationship. Person who cares for you loves you ........now matter who he is.......and please don't misunderstand sex with love.......sex is sex and love is love , you can say love is care.
2006-11-06 22:13:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you talking about me? am facing the same thing
2006-11-06 22:07:53 · answer #10 · answered by Some 1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋