why is my babys father always on my mind we broke up 2 years ago got back together this year and broke up again in March his constantly on my mind I still long to be with him but I can't cause he moved on and I recently took him up for child support I can't seem to meet anybody all the guys I meet always dissapoint me somehow and noone seems intrested in me I feel like dying cause it hurts so much... please help im all cried out...
2006-11-06 21:20:26 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds to me like you are still living in the past you have to let go and move on. He has moved so you also should do the same. It takes time but yu will be fine time heals all wounds
2006-11-06 21:23:50 · answer #1 · answered by destiny 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Missy you have a lot of things going on so here goes my input....I recently watched a medical show that explained that when a man ejaculates inside you he physically leaves a piece of him although he is no longer inside of you. I think this may be the reason that soooo many women who have babies with men can't move on. Next did u only do the child support because you were trying to get back at him for moving on? If he's not taking care of business then by all means he should pay support but if he was already being responsible you shouldn't get caught up in that system. Last but not least sometimes we need time to recover from all that we've been through and in my experience it isn't wise to jump into a relationship with anyone until the father is out of your system.....it isn't fair to a new guy to be punished by the wrongs of your ex.
Hope this helps......stay strong......your true love will come!
2006-11-06 21:30:38 · answer #2 · answered by JustCurious28 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You might not be able to get him back but he left you with a gift. His child ;). No relationship is good for you because you still feel for your ex. Until you are ready to get over your ex you will be able to see great people out there for you. You need to learn to get over him. It is a painful experience but one we must learn. You can still have a lot of love for him but you need to stop being in love with him. I know how it feels it is so hard, I 2 believe I left behind a soul mate, he will always be in my heart and I 2 am trying to figure out why I still think of him. Maybe because there are some we are just not suppose to forget but cherish that memory of them. ;)
2006-11-06 21:44:45 · answer #3 · answered by Starjarus 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should replace the empty romantic love with the love from and for your child. They need to see a strong mother. Stay positive and you will eventually be rewarded with a loving man.
2006-11-06 21:27:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
l know how you feel l had a girlfriend many years ago, i never stop thinking of her sometimes it hurts, l try to find someone else or just find anything else to think about but l keep thinking about her. l believe she was to be my soul mate but some how l let her slip away. l'm trying to think possitive and learning to love myself but it is hard.
2006-11-06 21:30:47 · answer #5 · answered by catsclaw 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to show that you love him. anyway if you don't though, think about your child. you made a few mistakes but now is the time to make up for them. before christmas.
2006-11-06 21:24:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you keep think about your ex doesn't help the situation, open you eye, look around, many nice guys... he has moved on, then you should as well.... you need look forward, not look back... life is too short for this!! be postive!!
2006-11-06 21:23:50 · answer #7 · answered by Tomorrowalwaysbetter! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋