i am sai.i am studying bsc third year,biochemistry.i have some negetive about my future,i know but i can not chage my skills.so give about how to improve my skills and inferiarity complex.and i have fear about my future.i want to be a leader but all of my friends are dissapointing me,i want to became a social worker and a millionear,but my position gives only negetive thinks ,please give me some clues to find a greatest life with happy.
2006-11-06 20:50:49 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
FIRST OF ALL PRACTISE BEFORE THE MIRROR THEN FAMILY AND FRIENDS YOU WILL GET LOTS HELP FROM THIS.
2006-11-06 21:13:50 · answer #1 · answered by RAMAN IOBIAN 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Understand that you are a unique person. There is no other person like you in the whole Universe! Since you are unique, it means that you were designed in a particular way for a particular mode of life they call 'Talent'. If you look around you, you will find every human, even the 'baba' who is begging at the street corner endowed with something special. Only that we do not realise it, and go in for approval of others. I quote the great chief Seattle:
"Normally people seek the approval of others and call it self confidence, the warrior seeks certainity in himself and calls it humility"
Surge ahead! Nothing can stop you. As far as getting rich goes, well, I hav'nt got rich yet, but I think two books, Rich-dad, Poor dad and The millionaire mind by Harv. Echer chan help you. Look out for them.
Lots of good wishes.
2006-11-07 05:00:54 · answer #2 · answered by Ravichandran 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Always prepare ahead of time! Read out loud, visualize the audience, focus on a particular person at a time and direct your speech as if you were talking to just one person. Also if the crowd is huge, look a little above the heads. But most of all, concentrate on what you are about to say, the impact it will have on each individual there, do not focus too much on yourself or imagined blunders, think of how what you say will benefit your audience.
2006-11-08 09:49:05 · answer #3 · answered by girlfunny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way to get rid of a fear is to "startdoing the things that makes you afraid...So if you are afriad of speaking in public..make sure you grab as many chance of speaking in public as possible....after a few mistakes, you will improve and get better each time...
Practise what you want to do...aldso visualize that you are successful...your body language and confidence will follow.
Ypur lifes ' succes or failue is detremined by what u think of yourself.
2006-11-07 04:56:04 · answer #4 · answered by monu2003_2004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU HAVE TREMENDOUS POTENTIAL.
I could observe that you are aware of your weak points. Its wonderful. I will give few steps to practise daily without fail.1.Before going to bed plan for coming day and write the programme in a small notebook. 2. Don't be in hurry to be millionare. 3.Read 'Geeta' daily with two or three shlokas.4.Have four hours food in day time and two hours water. 5. Have sound sleep of seven hours at night only.6.Walk for fifteen minutes daily before breakfast and before dinner.7. Before going to bed listen to good music like Sitar, Voilin,Sarod, Flute,Santoor etc.8.Boost yourself by saying before going to bed "I am the happiest person in the world. I don't have any problem. If I get any, I will face it boldly" At once you will be relaxed and have nice sleep and you will fresh for the next day in early morning.
2006-11-07 05:40:55 · answer #5 · answered by neela m 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi guy just think that people in front of you are fools and they don't know anything and you are going to teach them then automatically Ur fear will vanish this is my personal experience i used to so stringent even to go to the stage to receive my prize now i am giving atleast 2-3 PPT in my office in a week that too i am working for a MNC. so cheerful
2006-11-07 05:00:21 · answer #6 · answered by gp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perform ur skill (or whatever of ur concern) in front of a mirror, first time with ur eyes close and next with ur eyes open....gradually u'll forget about STAGE FEAR.
2006-11-07 04:54:20 · answer #7 · answered by pooja n 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can improve your skills and remove stage fear.
think positively. read Bhagavad Gita.
practise meditation and practise speech before mirror.
then do mock speeches as often as you can imaging a mob before you. prepare well with subject before speech.
good luck.
2006-11-07 11:54:56 · answer #8 · answered by prince47 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go to the mirror and perform .Dance,recite poems, sing etc.Then you have to perform in front of your friends and family
2006-11-07 10:53:00 · answer #9 · answered by krishna v 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't sound happy. Maybe take some time and think about what you want to do with your life.
2006-11-07 04:58:35 · answer #10 · answered by Just_A_Guy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You, you and you only , think positive,appreciate others as much as you can , accept mistake avoid argument , never complain about others, and never condemn others.
2006-11-07 10:19:21 · answer #11 · answered by surender p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋