WHY AM i ALONE?

Question

Every guy I meet seems to a asshole I gain quiet a lot of weight and before I was this fat guys use to beg for me nowadays noone even bothers looking at me whats wrong with me Im very good looking but just picked up alot of weight ... when I go shopping or clubbing and a guy looks at me he starts to stare and I look away
and then he looks away whats wrong with these men why am I not attracting fine men what am I doing wrong or should I br doing sumthing?

Answer 1

diet

Answer 2

It sounds like your are thinking a lot about your weight, it definitely bothers you. Your self-esteem has changed since you gained weight and this can be a part of the problem. You must decide if your like yourself now or not. If not, try to forget about guys for some time, try really hard to loose weight (eat healthily, find the sport you like, walking, dancing...anything) and enjoy yourself (get a new nice dress, new hairstyle, may be a few meeting with friends, you haven't seen for a long time, nice books). You must start feeling much better about yourself when you do now.
What has really changed is that some time ago you weren't much interested in guys (you could have any of them easily),but now you feel different about yourself, less capable to get the right guy's attention. Try to change the way you feel about yourself.
Have a nice day there!

Answer 3

Just as you'd like men to see you beyond your weight, you should also look beyond a man's physical appearance. You wonder why you are not attracting fine men. You should be looking for a good man. The old saying, "Beauty is in the eye of the beholder" is true. A man can seem so much more attractive when he is DOING all the right things and treating you right. What good is it if you've got a FINE *** man but the mother ****** treats you like ****? I'm sure there's more to you than your voluptuous figure. Don't worry so much about that and focus on loving yourself and working on realizing your inner beauty and that confidence will attract the right men, you'll see.

Answer 4

NO ... u r just fine the way you are. If you think that your weigh is the factor keeping your from being attracted then your should make and keep up with a diet plan. But remember one thing, if you want to find a good friend he won`t look at you like other guys do, this would be the signal that he`s the one for you. You should not waste any time in talking to him. If you already hav a friend like that then please xtick with him as long as possible. This way you will feel much better.
Pleasure to HELP !
Salik

Answer 5

It is human nature to look at attractive things.
Before you gained weight, i am sure you would go after good looking or maybe fairly good looking guys. It is quite natural.

There is a saying a girl would fall in love with her ears and a guy would fall in love with his eyes ( which means most girls are attracted to sweet talks and most guys attracted to what they see)

It is a fact. Dont get depressed over this because not all guys are the same.
I think its time that you make the change within yourself, start noticing guys that would love u for wat you are. Dont look for the guy and expect him to be what you want him to be. Start noticing other guys who would come after you.

I would suggest that you start loosing the weight that you gained.
It is not for other people, but rather for urself, to gain back your confidence and also health.
Dont get too depressed, start cutting down on extra food, exercise a lot. Get back into shape.
This time, look for a guy that would love just you, not the way you look there are many out there trust me. All you have to do is start noticing them.

Answer 6

k, honestly, fat isn't attractive. that's just how it is. it is nt shallow either, before you dismiss this. being overweight denotes a lack of discipline - in what you eat, in how you live your life, in how you take care of yourself. no, its not a gland thing or you would never have been thin. its that your not getting up and running five miles a day, and eating vegetables and chicken. hey, i used to be fat. ive lost 70 pounds. GET UP! start by taking care of you, because thats where it starts. then look at the rest of your life, and tackle it. confidence comes from the accomplishment of worthy goals. you will have it WHEN you've earned it. you already know what the problem is. now - do something about it!

Answer 7

You can worry about this or take action. You know you are attractive! Then promote confidence most attractive attribute a woman possesses, but don't go over board, only in a sexy manner. That should sort the men out from the boys.

Answer 8

hi,,,
iam happy just coz of one line that u said thats "iam very good looking but just picked up alot of wait"
i mean to say that still u have self confidence and dont let that go,,,
coz once u have that u can get what u want just what u want,,,
just stop thinking that guy is looking at u coz u r fat,,,, change ur thinking he might be worst ,,, just keep these things out and move,,,,
and on the same side just keep some diet control and keep doing exercise what ever u like,,
but dont let ur confidence come down..
u will make it its nothing... just give it a thought and best of luck
dr.hitesh

Answer 9

Chill honey. Confidence is the key. You need to laugh and smile and have more self respect. Be tough with a sense of humour. Women like bad guys but men like bad girls too. Be yourself though. Talk to everyone and good things will fall to you.

Answer 10

all Guys are assholes thats just how we're born. Some however grow out of that stage and relize what really counts. Some though never grow up. Keep your eyes open for that special someone. And don't be shy, put yourself out there. Let them see your personality so that they know what you have to offer.

Answer 11

well in my eperience talk to your friends find out who thry are dating if they have a good man find out who his friends are good men stick together. where you find one there will be more.
and stop stressing on your weight it will show on your face! men like a woman who is confident. my best friend in the work weighs a good 250lbs and all our lives she has been able to have any man she wants she is bubbly she knows she's hot and she doesn't care what anyone else thinks. people want to be around her. get my drift?