our relationship can't work?

Question

hellow guys i just wish u can help us my sister and i solve a problem of keeping our relationships,i will start with my sister,her relationships have been poor,everytime she dates someone it only lasts for months and so on andso forth, she has actually changed guys about 6 at a tender age and flited with some guys,she always ask me as to why she can't find true love and a commited boyfriend who can last forever and she says maybe its a will from God or that infatuation is in her blood and maybe she only likes guys with good looks and not the heart,so pliz help my sister solve her problems on want she can do at least 20 points and want she can do to last with a boyfriend,mostly the guys she dates are guys she parties with or clubs with since she clubs and goes with class,handsomeness and good clothes now she wants someone to guide her to change coz she thinks classify guys maybe is the problem or infatuation,how can one find a true lover and steps to keep someone.pliz!! help my sister

Answer 1

My friend , in lyf u must go for the heart not the looks n all those material stuff. GuyS with gud looks from my own point of view r not serious,, They know for sure that all the gals r after them ,,, I remember some1 telling mi that gals throw themself at him coz he is handsome n v a bit of some cash.. I wish u n ur sis the best ..
Donn ever fall for looks n cash ... They won't take u n-where

Answer 2

First of all never date guys you meet at clubs. Im a guy and only go to a club to get laid. I dont go their to look for girls to date.. I automatically assume that half the girls in clubs are sluts.. for real lol. She can find plenty of handsome guys who dress nice and can keep a job that would stay with her. But man she just has to know how to pick them. I am not there to pick them for her or I would. Rules that might help. Dont date any guys who are overly ghetto, walk funny, talk funny, think there a pimp, think they know everything, and especially dont date a guy who dont have a job. Cause their is usually not a reason a guy should have a job. Especially past 2 months at MOST.

Answer 3

Very simply, it sounds like your sister is seeking out the wrong kind of men. If she is interested only in the good looking ones and the ones that have fun at clubs, she is setting herself up for failure. If she wants a stable relationship, she needs to take a step beyond looks and having a "good time." If she keeps hooking up with players, she is going to get played. Looks and the ability to have a good time are important, they just can't be the PRIMARY things she is looking for if she wants a stable relationship. Trust, stability, realizing what is important in life are much more important than good looks and a good time. She may need to seek out someone older (but not I-miss-my-daddy older), someone who has a little life experience and has already been there, done that. I hope she figures it out. You are very good sister to be trying to help her like this.

Answer 4

Party place and the Bars are good to look for sex and short relationship only. Change the place to find somebody can help.

Answer 5

May i know how old is ur sis? I guess she's still young, & her heart have not stable yet. Tell her to b patient, she has a great & high taste for choosing a BF (Good!) but ask her is that wat she want for her (Future) hubby oso? I guess not, right? (will stolen by som1 easily.) N it will b dangerous ya. haha Kp hunting if she's still young, but dont do anything foolish or hurt herself, that will b fine!