We've been best friends for years before he got married. The relationship started because he thought he's getting devorce. Now that he's not i'm no longer want to be in this relationship, he's a married man. I'm not confidence that he would let it go. So i want to know how to stop this relationship but still be his good friends.
2006-11-06 20:17:08 · 14 answers · asked by Princess 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There is no room for you in the relationship as you indicate. Simply end it and do NOT make yourself available to him which means not going places where you will see him. I would forget "being good friends" because the relationship had moved to another level. That is the reality. If he does not respect your decision to remove yourself from this relationship, read Gavin deBecker's paperback book "The Gift of Fear". He is a top security expert and this book advises women how to handle themselves in risky situations. Remember always, if a man cheats on his wife, he will cheat on you and then on his third wife!
2006-11-06 20:28:32 · answer #1 · answered by jom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-07 15:52:34 · answer #2 · answered by Gladys 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think you can end the relationship and still remain friends. Sorry. But he's married, obviously happily or he would be divorced by now. You need to let him go. You need time apart. If after some time you can be friends again then thats great. If not, then thats life I'm afraid. He made his choice by staying with his wife.
Besides, would you really want a proper relationship with a guy so ready to cheat on someone he took the time and trouble to marry?
2006-11-06 20:26:58 · answer #3 · answered by Leiani 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It relies upon on how strict the relatives is. I relatively have a chum who's hindu and that they are very ingenious. i do no longer see a situation with it. i'm Catholic and that i married a pagan. we've been married now for 2 years. So definite it may artwork, you basically must ensure her relatives is pleased with it. some very classic Muslim familes basically choose their toddler marrying into yet another Muslim relatives. on the comparable time, this is as much as the two one in all you and what you choose. My mum and dad do no longer understand my spouse is pagan because of the fact they might **** a brick. If her mum and dad won't be able to settle for the certainty that she likes you and needs to spend something of her existence with you, there particularly isn't something her relatives can do approximately it. yet definitly do all you may so as that her relatives will settle for you. i've got even heard of a few human beings changing to that faith so as that they could marry that individual. Take case in point Tom Cruise and his spouse. She had to transform to Scientology with the intention to get married (which i do no longer accept as true with because of the fact love has no bounds and that incorporates faith, race, and way of existence). sturdy success.
2016-10-15 11:36:24 · answer #4 · answered by gartman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I highly doubt it's possible for you guys to remain friends. Tell him how you feel and what's on your mind...but it's really hard for two people to be friends after having a relationship that involved sex. I wish you the best of luck and hope it all works out.
2006-11-06 20:30:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't just end it and still be good friends. Maybe after time, but you have both done something and it will take time for it to heal for the both of you.
If you want to end it you need to committ to not calling him, texting him emailing him or 'checking to see how he is' for at least 3-6 months.
2006-11-06 20:20:45 · answer #6 · answered by Lashenova 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get involved in so many other activities that he can not keep up with you and keep a great distance for a year except via writing notes and even letters. never talk about the love affair though. if you are such good friend you still will be.
2006-11-06 20:24:07 · answer #7 · answered by deedeex 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good luck there is no possible way that you can remain friends sweetie and why would you obviously he is still married and probably still with his wife have you no consideration for his wife? Move on and find your own man.
2006-11-06 20:20:04 · answer #8 · answered by dodgerchik 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call or meet him somewhere, but be honest with him on how you feel. If he wants to be your friend in the end, he will accept what you are asking for.
2006-11-06 20:37:20 · answer #9 · answered by Pat T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you just need to explain to him that you no longer want to be the other woman and would like to just stay friends. if your friendship means anything to him then he will understand.
2006-11-06 20:23:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋