I have a 15 year old girl cousin who kind of looks up to me and confides in me and seeks my advice. When she told me that she was thinking about having sex for the first time with her boyfreind, I didn't really know what to tell her. They've been together for a few months and she said she loves him, but I've never met him and I question the validity of 15 year old love. Although my cousin is pretty intelligent and level-headed girl, and I did lose my virginity at 15. I ended up telling her to talk to her parents and make her own thought-out decision. Should I have told her something more or different?
2006-11-06 19:56:15 · 13 answers · asked by Subconsciousless 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dude, what can you possibly tell her. Are you kidding me, if you actually gave her advice it might just **** up the rest of her female career. Its like going back in time and changing something.
Girls go through some weird and sensitive experiences with sex, id say let a woman give her advice, you don't want her to turn out a stripper do you. Or a Hooker . etc.
2006-11-06 20:01:26 · answer #1 · answered by Tyson 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should stop reading this and call her as soon as possible and tell her the best time is when she gets married with the right man, and if her boyfriend wants sex or a little bit now. to prove she is marriage material and get married to her. She is a child and you are her guide. Do you think she is ready to take care of a baby by herself, work, and rent an apartment by herself. if she is not ready then she should wait.
2006-11-07 04:07:34 · answer #2 · answered by bankone1111 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You can only advise at the end of the day what you tell her doesnt matter she will do what she wants any way. If you would have said go for it she would have done it, if you would have said no you would have had to have a good reason or she would have thought you were against her. You did what was best
2006-11-07 04:19:50 · answer #3 · answered by annie.croft 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If she is thinking of doing the deed so early in life, she at least needs to get on the pill before it happens. She may later regret giving up her virginity, but hopefully never have to regret being a mom.
2006-11-07 04:00:02 · answer #4 · answered by busybody12 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She will make up her own mind no matter what anyone else says. She's not looking for anyone to be honest. She wants someone to give her the permission to do her boyfriend. You said the right thing.
2006-11-07 04:07:25 · answer #5 · answered by dante_cubit_3000 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I doubt she will tell her parents. Tell her to at least wait till college. Explain to her that she will probably regret it later and that she and her bf will most likely 99% not stay together. That she is too young to understand real love. She is in puppy love or lust.
2006-11-07 04:05:35 · answer #6 · answered by Lashenova 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well, I lost mine at 14 to a guy I didnt know too well. I think thats a wrong age. I guess she should ideally be at least 17 or so.
2006-11-07 03:59:00 · answer #7 · answered by linda g 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
in scotland over 16
2006-11-07 03:58:00 · answer #8 · answered by q6656303 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
the most appropriate time to loose it is until the person is married. there are just really some girls that can't wait till then.
2006-11-07 04:02:41 · answer #9 · answered by AraClaire 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
the best thing for her to loose her virginity from her husband. and the legal age for marriage is 18.
2006-11-07 04:37:19 · answer #10 · answered by Eccentric 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋