v usually speak on phone...but somedays he is really busy..v do fight every 3rd day...n i get emotional...but now my tears hv no value to him...he loves me alot..i kn..........but still....i cant stay w/o him tooo..???????
2006-11-06 19:35:46 · 13 answers · asked by crystal 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes,he might meet someone else
2006-11-06 19:40:52 · answer #1 · answered by Alkaz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To survive a long distance, a relationship must be stable. Instability and fights only create reasons to quit. When there is distance, you have lost all physical contact and the relationship must survive on the emotional connection alone. If that emotional connection is getting damaged, the relationship will quickly suffer harm. One who is already living without their partner has an easy exit for a relationship that appears to be more pain than pleasure.
2006-11-06 19:44:57 · answer #2 · answered by FSJD 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I tottaly understand where you coming from! fights become more often ..you thing he talks in much more irritating manner with you these days.whenever you get to talk with him! Life is not fun anymore as it use to be with him and all kind of negative thoughts might be running through your mind most of the time.But Girlie to tell you the truth this all comes from insecurity of him not being thr with you most of the time.It will go away.I know its hard to adjust with it.But if you both love eachother truely you will evantualy come out of this. fights would become less.when you both start understanding eachother more.otherthen just taking out time to shought at him that he does not have time for you or he is not caring for you now or things like that.You know what? your tears must be mattering to him..but if you cry most of the time it would lose its value.its like if i eat a pizza 3 time a day...even if i love it.i would almost stop eating it after 5-6 months.
So,same ways hold back your tears use it when emotions are really needed.dont be a emotional fool..be emotional but balance it out with your life.you need to make that person understand by understanding him and laughin with him n talking naughty and offcorse cryin too.but dont do much of everything that takes out the substence in a relationship.
All i would say is,just take care of yourself and keep your self happy with your friends take the shoulder of a trusted girlfriend you got,to cry if you have to most of the time.otherwse u might end up irritating him n then you will also end up blaming him for not showing you his care or he has no value for your tears.
Always remember my saying in life!
Value Of person ends the day he stops Valuing Himself!
you take care..Hope This Answer Helps You Dudet!
2006-11-06 20:24:29 · answer #3 · answered by Wisdom Of The God 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it happens.May be he is genuinely busy.So at times it will be difficult for him to attend your calls.My gf is also from a different state.We also fight very often.So it happens.I know.
All I can tell you is as long as you both trust each other there is no problem.Its just that you have to be bit more adjustable since you live far apart.Its a bit easy when you live close to each other and meeting each other.If he really loves you he will come to you one day.Dont have to worry too much.All the best
2006-11-06 19:50:52 · answer #4 · answered by Manu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey come on he might have been busy with some work when you called him and wanted all his attention which might have led to some quarrels...dont feel for such things...i dont think distance will cause disturbance to your relationship by any means...if you feel you really miss him a lot and want him to be near you...talk to your parents and get married soon!! All the Best :)
2006-11-06 22:52:38 · answer #5 · answered by Harish 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most likely yes. Long distance relationships are VERY difficult to maintain. It sounds like you've become attached to him for the wrong reasons, or no reason at all. Try to be just friends for now until you both know that your relationship is strong enough to go through this.
2006-11-06 19:42:59 · answer #6 · answered by Beebee07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand what u r feeling y do nt u spk him clearly ,it will clear ur all doubts bcoz u far from him u will be getting many wrong things abt him like he might got new girl or he is ignoring u
Its better if clear it
2006-11-06 19:46:23 · answer #7 · answered by Cyber Crime is Back 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ive been in the same situation...i dated a guy who live 500 miles away from me...we barely seen each other.argueing is deff not a good thing...guys dont like argueing or girls who like to argue.they hate dealing with crap.it started off with him going out everyday nd nite nd i never got to talk to him for more then 10 minutes.then we started to argue,then he started lieing nd hiding things,then it led to us breaking up.realationships outta state dont last long.but now i found someone new nd i see him every day nd we've been together for a while now...hope things work for u like they did me...good luck
2006-11-06 19:49:59 · answer #8 · answered by Kimmy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely .. Out of sight out of mind.. This holds true for all infactuations..
But if yours is true luv, this might not be true..
But to be on a safer side
meet him atleast once in a month..or maximum once in 3 months...
2006-11-06 19:41:48 · answer #9 · answered by Nickname 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
but do u love him thats the question. if u love him try n work things out not give up on it.
2006-11-06 19:42:19 · answer #10 · answered by shaneberry22 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋