You don't need much help, because although you don't realise it yet, you have the hard part cracked already. You've been successfully flirting with her, remember.
First, always bear in mind that it doesn't matter if she says "no." It actually does matter, because you fancy her rotten, but try to convince yourself that you really won't die a million deaths if she refuses.
Second, as you are planning your approach, always additionally remember these words: "There's always another woman." Meaning, if she says no, it won't matter because you will be hot for some other chickybabe in about two days' time.
By the way, that bit will also be a lie you will be telling yourself because this girl in the store is drop dead gorgeous, sweet and kinda mysterious too isn't she? So she's the only one you want anyway.
Next, don't worry about it any more in any event, but simply ask her out immediately after the next time you make her laugh at something. If she says no, keep up the flirting anyway, as its good practice for when you meet the girl for you...
2006-11-06 19:46:18
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answered by Anonymous
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Definitely ask her for coffee. A movie won't get you in any conversations, and dinner will make her feel trapped if you don't hit it off. Coffee is casual, and if you don't hit it off, it's much less painful to break away. Also, make like you were going to go to get coffee anyway, and then you had the sudden urge to ask her to come along. It makes you seem spontaneous, but also that if she says no, you make it seem as if your fun is not dependent on her saying "Yes."
2006-11-07 03:50:02
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answered by dante_cubit_3000 4
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Call her up and talk to her for about five minutes and then ask her to a movie or somethin'.
2006-11-07 03:33:38
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answered by Alkaz 2
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just walk up to her and ask her out! girls love a guy who dares to make the first move.. makes them feel sexy!
2006-11-07 04:51:20
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answered by I need a vacation! 4
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dont overdo it try something thats not so forward like coffee ask her if she would like to jion you on her next break
2006-11-07 03:31:32
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answered by a m 1
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