well to start wid a have a boyfrien.....we are into dis relationship from past four yrs....i was happy untill i found out dat he visit his ex girl frens profile and snap on orkut and dat too when i was away for hols at some place away frm him.he was madly in love wid dis girl but cause of some reason she dumped him....and when i asked him about dis thing he told me dat he still loves me but he is intersted in whas happenin in his ex girlfrens life......what shud i do....shud i dump him or continue dis relationship...plzzzz help
2006-11-06 19:23:39 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I dont find any reason for you to goto the extent of dumping him...he just saw her profile and wanted to know whats happening in her life dats it...did he goto the extent of going and asking her out again?? Dont you speak to other guys at all?? Just that she was his ex-gf hurts you...tell him that you dont like it calmly...he will accept it and solve it out between you both!! All the Best :)
2006-11-06 22:58:23 · answer #1 · answered by Harish 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Soon you the younger generation will not be able to write legitimate English. Anyway from whatever I could understand, my advice to you is to give him an ultimatum. Tell him to his face to make a choice between you and his ex. If he chooses you tell him that he will have nothing to do with his ex he has to forget her…even her name. Now if he agrees to this then it is OK, however, if you ever find out that he is maintaining contact with her drop him like a hot piece of coal. No more chances after that. Plenty of nice guys around why are you trying to hold on to someone who is trying to have his cake and eat it too.
2006-11-07 04:22:17 · answer #2 · answered by the Tramp 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
On that note show him u r mature enough to allow him to inquire about his ex. Show him u r not the insecure one in this relationship and on the other hand ask him it's okay if u check on a few of ur ex'es while he's at it just to see how they r doing after three yrs. or more of not seeing them or being with them. See what he says. then go from there. U'll have ur answer then.
2006-11-07 03:30:05 · answer #3 · answered by papabeartex 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pezzzzzzzzzzzzz dup dat dud. whys yous wit im win hes wit dat snap on orkut. u need ta git a goody mon. u shud use non vibbal comunkitson doe. no goody boyfrien wit out comunkitson.
2006-11-07 09:55:41 · answer #4 · answered by kiss me under the mistletoe 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, no he doesn't love you still, he loves her, you need to call it quits, out of respect for yourself. You said he was madly in love with her, perhaps she also was madly in love with him, break up with him, if she's moved on, she might not take him back and he'll end up witout any of the cake.
2006-11-07 03:49:30 · answer #5 · answered by You are loved 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
holy crap. learn to write your friggin language. don't date anybody , please, until you can at least do that. just what we need, more ignorant stupid people breeding. ever wonder why the rich get richer and the poor poorer? part of it is because they do stupid things like worry more about their ridicules social life than whether or not they can correctly address people in their own language. you have so many worse problems than what "yo man be doin"
2006-11-07 05:26:47 · answer #6 · answered by savgbst 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he's telling the truth, so say these words to him:
"don't waste a lot of time looking for her cos I'm gonna get jealous."
2006-11-07 03:42:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry to hear about u... but seriously talking, i think that u shud dump him coz if he is interested in his ex-gf's matters, then he might leave u in case she(his ex-gf) calls him back in her life... then u will b even more hurt... so this is right time to dump him... rest is up to u... sorry if i hurt u in neway...
2006-11-07 05:20:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well If you constantly feel he is not interested in you, either he is really not interested in you or you are kind of suspicious... If you dont fall in to the latter category.. I wud sincerely advise you to dump him because he is not yours..
Dont repent later...for that ..
Try to Move on ...
2006-11-07 03:29:05 · answer #9 · answered by Nickname 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He's just using you as someone to fall back to incase his ex won't go to him. Leave him before he hurts you. Or if you really want to stay with him, tell him that if he loves you, he'll stay with you and keep her out of his life.
2006-11-07 03:29:33 · answer #10 · answered by Beebee07 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋