Or just chatted you up, would you expect that what they expect is sex, and not just friendship?
2006-11-06 19:18:36 · 36 answers · asked by helloha06 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would because all women want me. I'm sure as you read this post you want me to butter your muffin right now. I can't help it. I'm just a sexy bast#rd
2006-11-06 19:21:42 · answer #1 · answered by Carl The green's keeper 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay. lol. This is the way it is.
I am a guy and will use myself as an example. If I am attracted to you. Sex is the focal point of the conversation and its purpose. Now I'm saying "If I'm attracted to you", assuming i am attractive and or think i am enough to think you do too. Thus we both should be thinking that.
Okay, lets recap. We are talking. You are attractive, and i am attractive. Why is sex not something on your mind. That is really the point of having to sex types of a species, so we can mate. If we are engaging in brilliant conversation that might be a different story, but if we are chatting it up, its either sex or being polite.
NO GUY WANTS TO HAVE WOMEN FRIENDS THAT DOESN"T FIND HIM SEXUALLY ATTRACTIVE.
IT IS A DISASTROUS TO AN EGO AND MAKES YOU INSECURE.
Hey you can be my friend if you like. I will tell you about all the girls i am attracted to but you and ill even share with you how good in bed they were.
Get it now. I swear some people think they are here to put people off.
Oh yeah, and another thing.
It is not called friends. What you are describing is you want to open the package and check it out, press the buttons and such, before you take it home.
You can easily do that by finding a pushover guy that wont stick up for himself or you. Imagine what sex would be like.
Anyway, good night.
2006-11-06 19:33:49 · answer #2 · answered by Tyson 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't expect sex. If we went on a date at the end of that date I should have a good understanding of weather we are going on another one. Most girls think that there is a difference between a guy friendship and a guy that she's dating. In our mind it's one and the same. I never expect anything, though. I take what I can get. If thats friendship that alright if you're a good friend.
If you don't mind me ranting...
Some girls I'm not interested in being "friends" with. I used to know a girl who really didn't know how to be a good friend even though I was interested in her. She kept insisting that we should be friends. I told her don't call me anymore. If you want a friendship then you have to kinda do what guys like to do. If you make him put up with your girly stuff then you should probably be sleeping with him.
2006-11-06 19:45:27 · answer #3 · answered by To Be Free 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When two people talk it not only the words that are exchanged but even body language of each is passed over to the other. It is this body language compounded with the topic they are chatting that gives one the clear view on how to go ahead i.e whether for sex or just friendship.
2006-11-06 19:27:55 · answer #4 · answered by ssmindia 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friends don't go on dates, friends just go out, technically it can be the same thing but if it's called a date I think that implies something more, but not nessesarely sex.
I think unless his idea of a date is going to the ice cream social, chit chatting, making sure he gets you back home by 8 and then going home to pray extra hard to get rid of the dirty thoughts he is feeling.
Unless he's that kind of guy then he will probably be thinking about molesting you in some way, he's a guy!!!
2006-11-06 19:37:07 · answer #5 · answered by basisdnb 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would expect that if a girl was that forward she was interested in me for something more than freindship. I wouldn't be put of doing it though. If you like a guy then ask. Speaking personally its great to be on the receiving end! At the same time though if you go out on the dat and things aren't clicking then don't feel under pressure. If he takes its badly hes obviously not worth bothering about anyways...
2006-11-06 19:26:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends how I felt about the girl--Im all for the girl being a bit forward, but in the same sense I never expect sex on the first date, Nor do I push it (no pun intended)
2006-11-06 19:22:36 · answer #7 · answered by Rez 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
depends on the maturity.
Till i was 20-22, i use to take everything as intention to sex, offcourse i never had.
But later, i had space to understand people.
nowdays, i enjoy fellowship and friendship.
even if a gal is intented for xx, i would prefer to keep a decent relationship.
first, chat, friendship, lotto understanding, stabilising the relationship, balance, fun, marriage then sex,,,, thats my preference.
just falling for the meat is sick and its addiction,,,, its a decease.
2006-11-06 19:39:18 · answer #8 · answered by test 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since when was a date intended to be just for friendship
2006-11-07 00:07:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I felt an attraction or mutual interest in the lady asking me to be her guest on a date,I would have no problem accepting her invitation. As to having a preset notion as to her motives ,sex being the one most people are obsessed with,I would always try in all things to not bring with you predetermined expectations.Handle the situation as it presents it self, naturally.
sdevin1962
2006-11-06 19:27:57 · answer #10 · answered by sdevin1962 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If the Gentleman accepts the invitation - then I presume it should be up to the lady to initiate anything further than just friendship - if she wants more and the Gentleman is prepared to comply - then no problem.
2006-11-06 19:58:35 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋