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2006-11-06 18:02:50 · 22 answers · asked by b. spears 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
ur feeling that u want to be the best mother shows that u r very responsible.
u feel that u want to give the best to ur children.......what else could make u the 'BEST MOTHER'.
2006-11-06 21:40:21 · answer #1 · answered by silambs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is not really a fair question. I say this because methods of parenting change with times.50 years ago the best mother would have been the Kind you see on Those cheesy 1950's sit coms, You know stay at home mom's who baked cookies and cleaned house did home work and always looked perfect.Then there was the woman's movement and the best mother's were the ones who worked out side the home and still found the time to do all the stay at home mom stuff.There was a time that spanking was considered a must,Now it is a crime. When meat and potatoes were must have foods,now veggies and low fat are the thing. The way I see it is this.Kids do not come with a manual at birth,{ at least mine didn't} I would say the best mothers are the kind that love their children no matter what, and do their absolute best to make sure they grow up happy and healthy. No matter how they get that way.If mom works,stays at home, spanks or uses time outs,feeds them nothing but meat or veggies,Is not really the issue.Love and Guidance is the key.All Moms who do their best are the best.
2006-11-08 20:05:58 · answer #2 · answered by blue_eyed_brat78 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every mother is "the Best Mother" to her child. Motherhood is the best gift that God gives to women and you don't need to "learn" to be the best mother. This is based on the premise that you are a good human being and you have mothered the child of your own will and that it is not a product of random sex and unwanted pregnancy. The other answers should also give you enough material to be a Best Mother!
2006-11-07 02:36:14 · answer #3 · answered by HFXashlee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could easily become Best mother if you remain in touch with the childrens and become their friends. Remember children have their own small little problems and for them these problems are not small as it seems to us. Sometimes being afraid of scolding and anger they lie. It is on the mothers attitude to affectionately resolve their little problems smoothly and in gracefully in a peaceful manner. One thing you must not forget is that Childrens are as pure as God. All the best to be the best mother
2006-11-07 04:21:27 · answer #4 · answered by sandeep w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1.Give them your time, it's the most precious gift you can bestow on your kids.
2.Remember that kids love boundaries,(rules) they re-enforce the fact you care.
3.Don't be afraid to parent rather than mother once in a while-they don't have to LIKE you all time, and they'll love you all the more for it long term.
4.Feed them good food from day one, your children are precious, don't fill them full of rubbish.
5.Get mealtime, bath time and bedtime routines established as early as humanly possible-certainly by 6 months for the 1st two,by 12months for the third-and you'll have very few problems that you can't cope with.
6.Give them positive instruction where possible-say 'be careful' rather than 'don't drop it'.(sounds weird, takes some getting used to but the results are great).
7.Enjoy them at every opportunity for the little individuals they are.
2006-11-07 09:49:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is no correct answer, you just do the best you can.... and you will be a great mom. love your child unconditionally, always be there for them and support them.
i know the \thoguht of being a parent and the very best at it is daunting, but you follow your heart and instincts and you wont go wrong
good luck
2006-11-07 02:09:32 · answer #6 · answered by JoAnne H 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is no right or wrong way but if you love your kid/s and you provided them with shelter warmth security and food well theres not much else.never let them think they were a mistake and never ever let them come to harm.show them how to bloom into beautiful adults that show all the good qualities that u taught them and you will one day say yes i did that look at them they are what i achieved
2006-11-07 05:08:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
b.spears needs advice to be a best mother? strange...
lol....
Feed your baby and always keep the baby in body contact until 9 months of his/her age.
when the baby grows and starts talking, don't speak anything that your kid should not speak or do. be good and behave good so that the baby learns only good.
with this piece of advice I hope to see a best mother. in you.....
2006-11-10 05:33:20 · answer #8 · answered by sona_d 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your children the truth about themselves, yourself, and your husband's background. Teach them respect for their fellow man. Love the man you are married to and love your children with all your heart. Be positive and keep smiling no matter what.
2006-11-07 02:22:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should learn to controll your temper and be more free with your children when he/she do wrong you correct there and then, to make them understand what they did is not good.ask them about how they feel about everthing thats surround them including there personal life.and you will see the change.good luck but i do believe you are a good mother.
2006-11-07 05:01:36 · answer #10 · answered by mima t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋