how do I get over my fear of relationships?

Question

Just havin issues have been single for 2 years because Im affraid for what ever reasons

Answer 1

Take your time. Start being friends with guys and stop thinking about being single enjoy your life and have fun.

Answer 2

Well, unless you give us a valid answer to "Whatever reasons" the only thing we can answer is: to get over the fear of having a relationship is to have a relationship! With a decent human being, of course. People seem to forget, we're all afraid to some degree, but unless you do something about conquering your fears, you'll just die a lonely, bitter fool who watched on the sidelines while the rest of the world has some fun! Get in there...it can't be any worse than being alone and wondering!!!

Answer 3

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Answer 4

Social Phobia is the most common form of mental illness in the America, at least, if not the world. Fear of groups of people or individual people can be a very debilitating disease. People struggle with social phobia all their lives without understanding that what they are going through is in some ways beyond their control without counseling and, often, medication.
The medication would be for depression and anxiety which are caused by feelings like you are expressing. It is just plain inconciviable to the American mind that you can have problems like we are talking about. However, that is the problem or maybe what is happening to you.
First, get relationship counselling. If that does not help you enough then get some one on one counselling. (I really believe that you should get the one on one professional counselling first)
You can then maintain your counselling in a number of ways. Hang in there, and thanks for asking the question.

Answer 5

the best solution for this is, if you are old enough to, go to a bar, and just chill. Go somewhere nice where there are hot guys, read a book, chill, bikini. I bet if you just hang out with guys around you, you will not realize that when you start making guy friends, there will be that perfect guy whom you would want to be with. Just get out there, do something different and attack, there are a lot of fish in the water waiting for you, good luck and have fun

Answer 6

Hello, I think you maybe afraid of loving someone. Let yourself loose and enjoy life.You can always tell if he is a good guy or bad guy. Pick someone who will show you respect and loves to be around you.You need to learn how to trust,that way you will be more comforable with your relationship. You need trust with out this you can't have a good relationship.So come out of your shell and start talking to people and maybe you will find Mr.Right. A Friend.

Clowmy

Answer 7

Just have to jump into a relationship with both feet and hope for the best. That is the best way to knock out a fear.

Answer 8

just get out there and be a little more friendly and approachable if you a cute girl with good personality you wont have trouble getting a guy and he might even be nice your young go have fun

Answer 9

you must watch movies like Preety women , titani,run away bride because in each mowen were afride in macking relation and at last they fall in love and if you are an indian you must watch tum bin

Answer 10

you should speak in front of group of friends specialy girls infront of boys and boys in front of girls and speak in front of mirror can help you to solve your problem.