I just met this girl sara last night and she was incredibly hot. I got to talking to her. I didnt give her my number because I dont know her that well. I happen to be friends with her best friend amy. today amy asked me what i think of her friend sara. do you think she was put up by her friend to find out if i like her? I am just curious. and interested.
I know you are going to say its lame asking advice from a stupid site. I am pretty lame.
2006-11-06 17:42:31 · 13 answers · asked by comdude 8 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
haha, first, I don't think it's lame, I think it's cute that you asked for advice, because clearly you like this girl a lot. And coming from a girl who's played this scenario from all sides, her friend was definitely set up to ask you about it, especially if you two were already friends. B/c if you're already friends, it's more natural that she would casually bring it up. But make no mistake, this was no coincidence-it was planned out, to find out what you thought. Hope you said nice things, cuz this could be the starting point for you! Good luck! (and don't call yourself lame)
2006-11-06 17:49:18 · answer #1 · answered by Adelie G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like the chick side of "pre dating". a little insite- in a chick world there are stage to dating. the first to to find a guy. in this case a freind of a friend will do (you). then meeting the guy (you) and if not directly associated, get aquanted to as to not brigde the gap of aquantances. next - survey the time spent to see if another encounter is worth her time.- in this case, she has your friend ask you how you like her hoping for a different answer than what she would have gotten had she asked herself. that is the stage you are describing..
soon- the next stage- if the synapsis went well, your friend will create either a "chance meeting" of the girl and you or an intentional date. have fun with it, be yourself. the girl will act funy and (if she likes you) do everything and talk about everything she thinks might impress you. my suggestion is not to let this turn you off but to tune in once in a while and respond breifly so she knows your listening.
the big thing is not to tell any girl you like -ever- that you know what her next move is (now that you know) but if you recognize the stages, chuckel in the back of your head and take it as a compliment. for the farther you go, the more she is truly intereted in you.
good luck
2006-11-06 17:57:08 · answer #2 · answered by iwantafignewton 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well it doesn't hurt to be on the safe side and get to know her better but I see two possibilities. Either she put her friend up to it or Amy is considering hooking you two up. Either way, Sara probably likes you so get to know her better and if you really feel the same, ask her out.
2006-11-06 17:47:54 · answer #3 · answered by pacific_crush 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, you're not lame if you're meeting hot girls. Amy may possibly like you and not want you to like Sara or Sara my like you and wants to know if you like her without asking you herself.
2006-11-06 17:46:16 · answer #4 · answered by E_Soup 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it particularly is style of a peculiar and wonderful reason to break up with somebody and it sounds to me that she nevertheless likes you, otherwise she does no longer be asking you in case you nevertheless like her and via her first reaction, it sounds to me that it grew to become right into a protection to be like, "pfff what you nevertheless do?" yet i've got confidence she grew to become into happy the respond grew to become into confident with the aid of fact otherwise her answer does no longer be how come for the 2nd reaction. I also have a feeling she believes she made a mistake via breaking apart with you and is probably re-thinking if she needs you returned or no longer. however the question is,do you prefer her returned? I also have a feeling that 8th grade can't be sure lots considering you're the two nevertheless youthful and courting at that age isn't the comparable as courting in college. you are able to aways be sure what she needs and easily settle on if being along with her returned is the impressive determination for you or you ought to the two wait till you're older.
2016-10-03 09:10:12 · answer #5 · answered by erlebach 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you dating this Amy? If not then why ask us. Just say yes and have the Sara thing
2006-11-06 17:48:06 · answer #6 · answered by good-for-all 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
nawl thats not a lame question. sara likes u. she just wanted to see how u felt about her, but just didn't want to come out and ask u. Goodluck with sara.
2006-11-06 17:48:14 · answer #7 · answered by Kimi 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Okay you need to work on your self esteem. It just goes to show that sara would like to get to know you better.
2006-11-06 17:45:04 · answer #8 · answered by betty_htch 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you think she's "incredibly hot" then say that.
we like compliments.
Though, keep your answers simple and short. You like her, you like her. You think she's good looking and would like to have a date with her, then say "i think she's good looking and would like to have a date with her". LONG answers make girls question and seek for hidden meanings. we over think things... a lot of times.
2006-11-06 17:46:37 · answer #9 · answered by bluecymbals04 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is almost ALWAYS a good sign. trust me here. just... see what happens. but I'd feel pretty good about it right now. best friends are the ultimate bridge of communication.
2006-11-06 17:45:22 · answer #10 · answered by Emmi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋