There's this guy that I really think is cute. He introduced himself to me and asked me if he could come over later. (we both live in the same dorm). I said ok. He comes over later and we have good conversation and he left about 2 hours later. He gave me a hug before he left and asked me what I was doing for the weekend and the next night. I told him what time I get off of work the next night and that I'm free over the weekend. yet it's been 3 nights already and he hasn't been over yet. We were watching a movie and he said he wanted to come back and watch the rest and he initiated the hug when he left. He also initiated coming over in the 1st place. So I know he was interested but why haven't I heard from him since then considering the fact that he was asking me what I was going to be doing this weekend. What's going on??
2006-11-06 17:39:01 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He also kept asking me if I was involved with anyone else and giving me compliments..also it's not weird to visit someone's dorm, this is a college campus and everyone does that all of the time but I did keep him in the living room and I didn't let him in the bedroom. we didn't exchange numbers.. I don't think either one of us thought about it because he does live right under me in the same dorm and that was our first meeting with each other so..
2006-11-06 17:39:22 · update #1
Maybe you went on and on and on and on and on like this with him... He gave you the hug as sympathy...
2006-11-06 17:41:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You already answered your own question. Yes, you did let him in the door, but you made a point of telling us he wasn't allowed in the bedroom. And if you spent hours watching what amounted to part of a movie and he complimented you, etc...what did you do to let him know you really wanted to see him again, or that you even enjoyed the time you already spent with him??? Is he supposed to bring a crystal ball to your dorm room next time and summon the spirits to let him in on what you're thinking? Next time YOU initiate the warm hug and maybe even kiss him hello...it'll be a better start!
2006-11-07 01:47:19 · answer #2 · answered by wetdreamdiver 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have to agree with the previous answer. But if you the guy go knock on his door and say heyyyy what's going on!...Have asked around about him? what type of guy is he? Move on to next guy and say bump him. Good luck
2006-11-07 01:46:21 · answer #3 · answered by Peek@u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who knows what could have come up with this guy. Just take it slow. First don't be the type that just wants to be clingy. Secondly have him come to you. If he doesn't then to hell with his and find someone else.
2006-11-07 01:42:18 · answer #4 · answered by Trish 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
slow my a@#$; Either he's interested or he's not. If he is, he should be activly persuing you.. I would say he's not interested however, another possibility is that he's playing the "what am I doing now?" game in which case YOU should drop it immediately. You don't need that kind of immaturity in your life; TRUST ME.
2006-11-07 01:48:08 · answer #5 · answered by gjm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be easy or if you feel that strong about it go knock on his door just to say hi or wait umtill you bump into him or slide your number under the door do something because i can tell you like him
2006-11-07 01:46:58 · answer #6 · answered by NICOLE B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He thought you were going to be a easy score and now he lost interest.
2006-11-07 01:41:00 · answer #7 · answered by betty_htch 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋