She has been my girl friend for the past year now, and i really love her, and she loved me too. But 4 weeks ago we got into a fight. she was irritated by me studying and only doing my homework. and not taking her out enough(i used to take her out every week on Fridays and Saturdays). she continued to bug me for 2 hours and i had enough and i told her to mind her own business about that. and she started making a huge issue out of it. i was sick and tired of it and told her to keep her ******* mouth shut. as soon as i said that i realized my mistake. she walked away and started crying. she even didn't come to our next class. her friends almost the whole high school girls came to me and started to scold me and abuse me. i just didn't do anything and kept quiet while my friends took care of the other girls(i don't know how this became such a big issue). but during our school trip we patched up again. i told her i loved her and she said nothing, then the next moment we were kissing. but....
2006-11-06 17:31:30 · 11 answers · asked by ThE TiTaN 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
now i feel she doesn't love me any more she started hanging around with some other guys and when i asked her, she said "What are you talking about, you know i love you only. and then i realized she was not being truth full. she also canceled our date on saturday. what do you think about this? And now I am sure she doesn’t love me. I am feeling very depressed due to this plz help me
2006-11-06 17:31:44 · update #1
i know i have already asked this question before but most of you had not read the additional details and now i am sure she doesn't love me :'(
2006-11-06 17:33:08 · update #2
baby she is just trying to hurt u back. i promise if u already tried to make up with her and she is acting out, she is just trying to make u upset. give her a few days to let it cool off and i promise she'll be back. dont let it frustrate u. its just something that we as women do. trust me. when she smile, just smile right back. let her know that she doesnt get to u, even if she really does. good luck.
2006-11-06 17:39:17 · answer #1 · answered by Kimi 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I guess you are around 14 since what she is doing is definitely not mature. Your girlfriend needs to understand that sometimes you can be busy and can't be with her as much as she likes. This happens all the time when you start becoming an adult. We all wish to spend more time with our beloved ones but we also have responsibilities to do.
Most probably, she is acting on the advice of her "girl" friends and trying to make you jealous so you would care her more. But this is exactly what most girls do wrong. You need to tell her that these behavior only damage your relationship more and ask her to understand your situation and that you do have responsibilities.
Tell her also that no homework is worth loosing her but explain her that beloved ones support each other at times of need. Most probably things will turn out to be fine in a while. If not, then may be she needs more time to grow up and learn that all humans have responsibilities to be taken care of.
2006-11-06 17:43:47 · answer #2 · answered by bogus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well frend.......u noe tht she doesnt like u nemore........
can u force her?????? no naa?? its her own life?? its her own decison, now wht i think is too late to realize ur mistake....but it was gud tht atleast u realized ur mistake bfore but she wasnt so concerned.....dis measn yes she is no more interested in u !
Now........one thing is only can b done.......just 4get her!!!
Just lev her......just move away frm her so tht even she cud live happily n u too.....
u shud try to now concentrate on ur studies n other stuff....now just 4get her....shes no more interested in u then y r u so concerned abt her? no need....its wastage of time....obviously she wil say tht she likes u so as to take a revenge.....she will say she likes u n u'll b mad after her n then suddenly she cud lev u ......all ur dreamz n luv will b spoiled in a minute...so not goin so deep......its d rite time now tht u just tell her tht u wanan b her frend...nothing elz..u r frendz gud........n thts better !!!
2006-11-06 17:39:48 · answer #3 · answered by Neha 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should not have talked to her like that. You say you love her well love takes work. you have to pay attention to her and it might be hard but you have to try. have you told her you were sorry for talking to her like that? If not you need to and try to give her some space. You need to understand why she is upset or you will never get her back. good luck.
2006-11-06 19:05:36 · answer #4 · answered by askhow1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her and tell her how you feel. It sounds like you are to wrapped up into her. What did you like to do before you guys got together? Don't chase after her that is what she wants let her have some room if she really loves you, she will come back to you.
2006-11-06 17:35:49 · answer #5 · answered by betty_htch 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Seek ye the knowledge first and all other will added unto thee. This girl won't do no good to your studies. Except if you don't care about that
2006-11-06 17:37:43 · answer #6 · answered by good-for-all 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Good ridance! Think of the bright side of it. Concentrate on your studies.
2006-11-06 17:34:51 · answer #7 · answered by manang bruka 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most important is to give her time and respect that she needs that. Set her free and if she comes back then she truely was yours from the start. She's been deeply hurt.
2006-11-06 17:35:05 · answer #8 · answered by susie 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
back off being needy makes it worse cope without her but stay graceful
2006-11-06 17:33:54 · answer #9 · answered by q6656303 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
aww thats sad. but really you need to concentrate on your studies. she needs to know that good grades are just as important as her needs.
2006-11-06 17:36:31 · answer #10 · answered by HijabiMuslimah 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋