well me and my boyfriend live like 45 minuets away from each other and i am either at work are he is so this weekend he came and picked me up so we are chilling i went to the bathroom so i am sitting there and i looked at the garbarge and a condom wrapper was in there it was not hid it was sitting right there in eye veiw so i started to laugh and he asked me what was so funny so i told him what i had saw and he said that his homeboy had somebody over so i said whatever well atlease you used a condom and he still kept saying that it was his boys and did i want to call him so i said no becuase i did not want him to think that i did not trust him but i am still thinking about it do you think that i should have called and do you think that it was his
2006-11-06 17:23:22 · 12 answers · asked by NICOLE B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If this guy truely loves you I do not why he should lie to You. I f you are sure about his love for you then no problem. But if not, Be careful.
2006-11-06 17:29:53 · answer #1 · answered by SHA 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, how long have you and this boy hung out together? I say boy, because a MAN,would tell ya the truth! Why would a Man, have his MALE friend over so his best friend can get his groove on? Come on chicklet,Yes I am a White female, do not let this man play you for a fool.You saw the condom, if it was his boy;s, he would take care of his business somewhere else! Good luck,darling!
2006-11-06 17:30:53 · answer #2 · answered by Marna S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It just goes to show you how far a person will go to get you to believe a lie when he could have just told the truth.I hope for your sake you didn't believe him.Now what you should do next is get tested and if you can't get closer together,let him off the hook and break up and move on.
2006-11-06 17:31:17 · answer #3 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm.. tricky.
does your bf have a history of cheating on his girlfriends? if so, i would definitely be a bit worried. once a cheater, always a cheater. if he doesn't, he should understand if you talk to him seriously and tell him that your concerned and want to know the truth.
it depends on the guy, really.
2006-11-06 17:27:37 · answer #4 · answered by cherie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I never understood the whole letting my boys use my bed to have sex. Keep digging I am sure there is more dirt to be found.
2006-11-06 17:26:01 · answer #5 · answered by betty_htch 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't be sure at this point but you have every reason to
be suspicious and keep an eye on him in the future...
2006-11-06 17:25:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't get it why you laughed about it?
i mean, weren't you supposed to be questioning him instead?
anyway, i personally wouldn't believe in that crap he said.
why was the wrapper in HIS room, in HIS garbage bin?
just like previous answerer said, dig deeper you'll find out more.
2006-11-06 17:31:12 · answer #7 · answered by meanQueen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can only be sure by the volume of sperm released. Check it out. Volume matters
2006-11-06 17:32:37 · answer #8 · answered by good-for-all 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are in the best position to judge whether or not he's telling you the truth. If it was him, he's not very smart and you'll catch him soon.
2006-11-06 17:27:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you should call the friend, soon. Although if your guy is lying there is the possiblity that he has already talked to him to take the blame.
2006-11-06 17:27:38 · answer #10 · answered by Ashley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋