We have been friends for years...and well he confessed to me that he liked me. Yeah it was weird at first but after time I began to kiss him back and actually like him....one thing led to another ....next thing I know he has a boyfriend.He is mainly dating the guy because he couldn't say no. But it hurts me so bad. He sings me love songs in front of his boyfriend. And he has tested himself and he can't stay away from me and I can not stay away from him. I am actually testing myself right now. And he just called and my heart skipped a beat. I am falling in love with a gay guy and it sucks. Plus I may be pregnet with his kid!!! Should we give a relationship a try?
2006-11-06 17:23:03 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok lets see he says he is gay but has had sex with u and now u could be preg srry to say he is bi not gay .If u went out with him how would u feel about him having sex with other guys? Dose heknow u could be preg? Dose the other guy know whats been happening behind his back? this are the ? u need to ask your self
But honestly you need to go withyour heart and gut on this one talk with him see what he wants and talk about what you want to happen no matter what you have a baby to prob think about and if u both decided to make it work you need to do it now rather then latter other wise to many ppl will endup hurt and then ppl will say things and do things that will hurt others so think about it seriously and not just for the sake of ababy but u and the guy u liike
2006-11-06 20:12:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm, he sounds bi instead of gay, but regardless. Forget he's into guys. If he was singing love songs in front of his girlfriend, would you go for him? Would you be okay with him dating another girl because he couldn't say no? What kind of turkey is he? Can't say no? He cheats on his partner? Wake up girlfriend! He's a loser, gay or not gay! He's in another relationship, don't go for it! If he has such disregard for his boyfriend, he'll be just as bad with you. Spare yourself. And yeah, I know, it's not fair how gay guys are always so hot!
2006-11-06 17:33:04 · answer #2 · answered by Mmmmm 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There ought to be 2 motives.... a million)Your boyfrined ought to sense threatened, sexually, via your gay buddy. You did no longer say how previous they have been. yet alot of str8 adult males who've yet to grow to be gentle with themselves, are threatened via bi or gay adult males...it challanges their masculinity which at those an prolonged time are substantial. 2) They sense threatened via your dating inclusive of your buddy. easily jealous of you comfortableness around your gay buddy and cant comprehend why you could sense 'safer' around your gay buddy. (you maximum possibly are on account which you possibility much less harm) suggestion: Ask your boyfrined element sparkling WHY! clarify that if the two considered one of you have comparable intrest (which you hav to would desire to be a sucessful couple) he might like this gay frined if he only have been given to comprehend him. Get the two mutually on an equivalent section. tell the gay buddy that this realtionship is substantial to you and he desires to tutor down his 'gayness' until eventually your boyfriend get gentle. in the event that they the two shield you, they'll artwork to make this stable for you. It won't take lots on the two area.... basically a splash understanding, a splash 'backing off' and a splash time. stable success!
2016-10-21 09:57:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Noooooooooooo! Stay away from the gay! You got hearts to spare? You'll get your heart broken certamente!
Dang, don't screw around with gay guys, he'll leave you for a boy! That in itself in humiliating!
2006-11-06 17:28:28 · answer #4 · answered by Pivoine 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO WAY! You're both going to get hurt in the long run and I suggest you take a pregnancy test ASAP.
2006-11-06 17:27:08 · answer #5 · answered by Allie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not unless you want to tolerate him having relationships with men on the side. Do you really think he will stop having sex with men?
2006-11-06 17:27:55 · answer #6 · answered by Marti M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO!!!!! he is always going to be GAY. he is just testing the water, or getting his feet wet.you don't want to catch something LEAVE it alone
2006-11-06 17:27:19 · answer #7 · answered by mizcokebottle_06 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go ahead and try it if you don't mind that he likes men and will always like men more than you. You can't say you didn't know.
2006-11-06 17:31:16 · answer #8 · answered by wondering 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it...he will only leave you hurt and confused. He doesn't even know what gender he prefers.
2006-11-06 17:28:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he may be in love with you maybe he is not all that gay you know what I mean, good luck to you
2006-11-06 17:27:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋