There's this guy that I really think is cute. He introduced himself to me and asked me if he could come over later. (we both live in the same dorm). I said ok. He comes over later and we have good conversation and he left about 2 hours later. He gave me a hug before he left and asked me what I was doing for the weekend and the next night. I told him what time I get off of work the next night and that I'm free over the weekend. yet it's been 3 nights already and he hasn't been over yet. We were watching a movie and he said he wanted to come back and watch the rest and he initiated the hug when he left. He also initiated coming over in the 1st place. So I know he was interested but why haven't I heard from him since then considering the fact that he was asking me what I was going to be doing this weekend. What's going on??
2006-11-06 17:12:59 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He also kept asking me if I was involved with anyone else and giving me compliments..also it's not weird to visit someone's dorm, this is a college campus and everyone does that all of the time but I did keep him in the living room and I didn't let him in the bedroom. we didn't exchange numbers.. I don't think either one of us thought about it because he does live right under me in the same dorm and that was our first meeting with each other so..
2006-11-06 17:13:32 · update #1
maybe he had other motives... but he sure sounds distracted, or confused--uncertain... sure doesn't seem right somehow...
2006-11-06 17:20:54 · answer #1 · answered by wat_more_can_i_say? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes I think if guys ARE interested, they don't want to look too desperate or pushy by calling or stopping by too soon after seeing eachother. But I also think there is a window when it becomes too late for him to call- a week tops. If he is interested, it may take him a few days to get the courage to make another move, especially in your case he made the move. He may be waiting for you to make the next move. He opened up by asking you what you're doing the rest of the week. now he's waiting for you to respond. If you see him in the hallway, ask him what's going on or if he wants to hang out that week , but do it casually. If he doesn't respond, then he's not worth it.
2006-11-07 01:20:37 · answer #2 · answered by ashstrom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I never went on a second date with a guy who didn't keep his promise. Whatever he's doing, if he's standing you up, go get busy. He doesn't need to have the impression that universe is centered around him. He's feeding his ego with that. Make yourself unavailable a few times if you want to see him again. Even if you told him you're not involved, don't let him get the impression you can't get involved any time soon... Work it babe!
2006-11-07 01:20:08 · answer #3 · answered by Pivoine 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My guess is that he is already seeing somebody and is probably thinking about breaking up. Be cool and don't give it much thought, either. He will show more interest if he is serious, and if not, then no harm done.
2006-11-07 01:19:30 · answer #4 · answered by seek_fulfill 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i don't understand the situation. just enjoy being friends with the guy. he's not blowing u off. just be patient and c what happens, but DON'T sit around waiting on him. gurl just keep doing what u normally do.
2006-11-07 01:20:34 · answer #5 · answered by Kimi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Alicia, Everything you have told us points to him being very interested in you.Let him have sometime and he will come around.
Clowmy
2006-11-07 01:19:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
its obvious. he thought he was going to get lucky. he didnt so cant be bothered with you anymore. the only way to win him is by doing him. make it wild and nasty. you will win him over for sure.
2006-11-07 01:18:25 · answer #7 · answered by a_bike_guy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be patient, he either chickened out or became distracted.
2006-11-07 01:15:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is busy, or he doesn't think you are going to be a easy score liked he had hoped.
2006-11-07 01:17:14 · answer #9 · answered by betty_htch 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
young guys have raging hormones and he may have pleasured himself and that's why you have not heard from him. he will come back.
2006-11-07 01:18:11 · answer #10 · answered by zenasrager 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋