is it possible for a guy to have a girl best friend (or vise versa) without them liking each other?? (of course i know it is, but under what circumstances??)
2006-11-06 17:10:00 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
when they've grown up with each other, can understand what each other been through, etc. my best friend is a girl and we in a way hate each other yet were still best friends!
2006-11-06 17:15:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure it is! One of my best friends is a guy. We went to school together and are both married & have children that are friends like we are now. I think it works out fine as long as there is no attraction between the two of you. I look at my friend as a brother I never had. I talk to him & ask him advice about things I would ask a girlfriend. He's great to have around. But.... If there is an attraction there on either one of your parts then that might create a problem but if not then you are one lucky gal to have a close guy friend to talk to!
2006-11-06 17:22:05 · answer #2 · answered by NtheDark 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I once read that for opposite sexes to remain strictky friends they must find sommething repolsive about the other. But experience tells me yes it is possible. I have had 3 male friends that were very close and at times I thought about it most of the time we had the strength to remain friends. One time I did slip with one of them we still talk but it's not the same. Hoope that helps
2006-11-06 17:19:31 · answer #3 · answered by misti 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think Its possible, but the girl cant be the type of girl that he would normally like/be attracted to. If the girl is kind of tomboyish then it could work out. Or if he just sees her as a little sister type.
for girls, its easier to be-friend the opposite sex without having feelings for them in a non-friend more than friend way.
2006-11-07 15:53:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it is possible but under rare circumstances. for example, my husband has no clue whn i girl is hitting on him. it took me 3 months to get his attention (hard work paid off). but not alot of men are like that. as a benefit to me, his best friend-a girl- is from italy and her upbringing does not allow for "friends" to court eachother. like i said. it is rare but it does happen.
but as a general rule in all relationships- if you cannot trust your partner and they cannot trust you, it was not meant to be.
2006-11-06 17:17:07 · answer #5 · answered by iwantafignewton 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is under whatever circumstances you make it be. Yes it is quite possible. That's how it is with me.
2006-11-06 17:12:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
a boy can be girl's best friend and vice verse,although they hate each other in case they are undergoing same circumstances and situations,and knows each other situations......
2006-11-06 17:17:42 · answer #7 · answered by Rima Singla 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's of course possible, but more than likely one or both will eventually develop more-than-friends feelings for the other.
2006-11-06 17:13:24 · answer #8 · answered by Green-eyed Nikki 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, That would be growing up together and becoming best friends.It works.
Clowmy
2006-11-06 17:14:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Heck, yes! They don't have the right chemisry for romance, but really like each other like brother & sister!
2006-11-06 17:12:13 · answer #10 · answered by life coach 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋