My wife and I have been separated for nine months. We have two kids 4yrs and t a year old. I made another girl pregenant. Yeah she is made at me. I have since realised. Whats more important and trying to make up for it.
Since then everytime we try to do something together it ends up in a fight. I was not happy with her chatting to other guys on the internet and going on dates.. Two months ago we decided to get back together I was trying hard to mke things work. Then I found out she was seeing this other guy while we were trying, I was ok with it since I had huirt her first. And thought that was her way of getting back to me. She promised to make things work. How ever I had lost my trust. She just told me she wants to be friends with benefits at the same time she wants to see other people. Thing is I love her so much. And I dont think she knows. I will do anything for her. But she is so sure that she wants us over. She went out last weekend while I baby set and she met this guy, She i
2006-11-06 17:04:11 · 4 answers · asked by Tindofella 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the marriage is over. the 2 of u have lost all respect for each other. just move on. if u stay u could end up doing more harm. think abut the children. they have to see this behavior going on in the home. so just move on.
2006-11-06 17:15:13 · answer #1 · answered by Kimi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to sit down and have a conversation with her, tell her everything your feeling, what you want. Listen to what she wants and feels. Don't have your kids around. Don't let it turn in to a fight, or a well you did that so I did this. This is about trying to save your marriage, and your future, not to rehash the past. If you both still love each other you can get over the each other have been doing the last 9 months. If after the conversation, she still feels the same way, cut your losses and move on. There are somethings you just have to give up on. Sorry good luck to you.
2006-11-06 17:14:16 · answer #2 · answered by Emily 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well honestly she has no trust in you as you have no trust in her. In my expeirnce its hard to get trust back when you've been hurt like that. It doesn't sound like it's going to work out so now all you can do is be there for your children through the devorce that you should probably get.
2006-11-06 17:11:10 · answer #3 · answered by misti 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You both have lost interest and trust in each other. I pity the children.
2006-11-06 17:16:18 · answer #4 · answered by rams 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋