Is it that a woman indirectly leads a relationship,and gives sex to a man she loves?

Question

and takes revenge from guys in her past life ?[ did my gf also wanted the same}
My Gf..said me many times that,
1] if........I should leave her
2] If i am interested in someone else rather than her {when actually i was busy with my work]...i should leave her,
[3} if i dont im her.[when i am busy with something more important]. i should leave her,
and she would show she is super angry,and as if i have killed everyone on earth...I use to think ,if that is part of her nature I should accept her, be her punching bag, always be round her, so that her hands wont hurt if she punches someone{who dont care for her]
But....
1} it was her one mistake after 8 months ,
i just Shouted to check what she says .
2} I said her GET OUT OF MY LIFE..
3} She said she will follow my words..
and left has never shown yet....


WHY IT HAPPENED, like that
1}It took her -3-4 times to say me ...break our relationship...
STILL I always tried and kept saving our relationship,.
2} I JUST SAID

Answer 1

youre better off without her.
Not to cut you even deeper, but it sounds to me like she wanted the relationship to end, but she was too much of a wimp(or a b****)to end it herself, so she wanted you to do it.
you deserve someone better than that. Who really wants to be with you. Who's not gonna play you like that.

Answer 2

Of course the woman decides who she has sex with, unless you want to be a rapist. Other than that, I have no idea what you are saying. Another thing, don't let her turn you into a wimp.

Answer 3

I'm not really sure what you are asking here. It sounds like English isn't your first language. If you could clarify what it is you are looking for - you might get clearer answers. Sorry.