How can you be friends with the other women without wanting to hurt them in jealousy persay?? To always have to share your loved one..to know that you will never completely have his heart..that all your love and effort isn't enough for him to be with just you. It's hard to enough to know about them but then have it thrown in your face is horrible..I couldn't do it no matter how much I am in love with my boyfriend. Can someone help me with that one please??
2006-11-06 15:33:09 · 5 answers · asked by Deb 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well coming from a country that is nothing but muslims well my parents are anyways I was raised in spain but my parents and granparents and so on are from Iran. Here is the low down on those people who don't know let me educate you.
The only way a man can get a second or third wife *which by the way they can only hae 3* is if the first wife consents it because she can not provide him with a boy to carry the name. Sometimes they only have a marriage that last however long it takes to get a boy and then they divorce or whatever not usually though. ANyways the first wife is really incontrol if she wants to do it or not, the other way a man can go abouts doing that is if the wife leaves. FOr example my grandma was visiting my family in Spain and she stayed for like 4 years or something long time and my grandpa got this his secertary pregnant so he had to marry him by the muslim law. So he married her because A. THe wife technically left him and B. she was pregnant.
Not that he does not love you some females are okay with not having the man around and all they want out of life is children and a nice house and money right and some sex every now and then. But there is more to it than most westerns know anyways I dont know the rest of the details cause I am Christian and I know very limitted information about muslims *how ironic I know* BUt yeah there u go.
2006-11-06 15:42:04 · answer #1 · answered by TOokieTook 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am married to a Muslim man(Saudi born and raised) , he says he has no respect for a Muslim man who just takes other wives to be taking them. He says Allah only gave this provision of more than one wife, originally to populate the world, now the general thought is for cases in which the wife can not bear children. My In-Laws have been married(to only each other) for almost 50 years. My sister-in-law lives in Israel, and recently her husband took another wife. She was devastated as was their 8 children. When wife #2 got pregnant he actually asked #1 to raise the child. My In-laws were outraged on both counts. Such Hell was raised he finally divorced wife #2. Baby not born yet, but as "The Man", he is legally granted the right to take that child and not even let the mother have visitation. Thank God, we live in America, where it is illegal for any man to try any of these things!!
2006-11-06 15:45:18 · answer #2 · answered by Becki N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In the identify of God the Merciful If you'll be able to move to a Muslim nation might be greater You don't have got to inform others, however you wish to have a associate to aid you to synchronize and inspire either one of you the opposite Muslims need to be trained the 5 fundamentals( SHAHADA, five PRAYERS, RAMADAN FASTING , ZAKKAH , HAJ) AND doing them in there instances After that you simply research the faith till you already know God extra for the reason that at any time when I have identified will turn out to be more potent muslim
2016-09-01 08:29:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey, I doubt I could deal with it either.
2006-11-06 15:35:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
they have several mates,,,,,,,,,,,,,the women has 1 the men have several,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,sad i would say
2006-11-06 15:37:04 · answer #5 · answered by amberharris20022000 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋