Here's the hypothetical: suppose you met a woman on vacation. You both know that you have limited time together (say a month or two). You're attracted to her and she likes you back. Would you hold back because you know it's going to end soon and you won't be together? Or would you share yourself and get to know her as though you wouldn't have to part?
2006-11-06 15:31:59 · 19 answers · asked by Trillian 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
>Cutting through all the romantic crap, I believe that the best course would be to spend the time you have together rutting like crazed teenage rabbits and let Nature decide things...that's the way it will be anyway.<
2006-11-06 15:38:28 · answer #1 · answered by Druid 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have to take the chance. If you don't, you will never be able to answer the question that will swim around in the back of your mind for the rest of your natural life. What If? That person could be the love of your life. Or, a close call. But, you'll never know unless you try.
2006-11-07 20:23:15 · answer #2 · answered by The Oracle Of Portland Maine 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it would be like any other part of my vacation.....soon the beaches, the delicious fine dining, and the beautiful views of the sunsets would all be gone, just like her.
And hey, if worst comes to worst, you could still keep in touch with the most modern technology, computers
2006-11-06 23:36:50 · answer #3 · answered by Greg S 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is the story of why men and women hit it off together. If you both want to do things, you will do them and worry about tomorrow when it comes. This does not apply to those who are involved back home, just if both are totally single.
2006-11-06 23:36:26 · answer #4 · answered by Nort 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds too unlikely - it would still take time to get to know someone as every one is on their best behaviour to begin with then the little weird things start making an appearance. Just my experience
2006-11-06 23:36:06 · answer #5 · answered by northcarrlight 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Enjoy the moment and do everything you would imagine to do.
BUT, it would be a lot better and easier for both of you if you move on and dont do anything as the memories and the thoughts of "what if' will always bother you in the future...
2006-11-06 23:38:45 · answer #6 · answered by Lestat R 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would definitely take the crooked with the straight, what i mean by that is take the good with the bad and just allow myself to get closer to her even though i know it has to end, but all good things must come to an end
2006-11-06 23:36:54 · answer #7 · answered by gsxr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends where you meet her. If you meet her about 500 miles away or so, i would keep in touch. But if i meet her 4000 miles away, it is almost impossible for it to work, unless one of you is rich and can move to where the other person is at
2006-11-06 23:35:38 · answer #8 · answered by Aaron 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would say, don't think too much about the future, the experience itself is the reward, or you migth feel regret for the "undo" things.
2006-11-06 23:46:22 · answer #9 · answered by David Q 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a lot of loving can happen in a short time. I'm not holding back.
2006-11-06 23:34:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋