Its like living with a terrorist, you never know what next will be destroyed or disappeared. Always have to lock up things. Always have to check for things and find out what next. Always behind my back, by surprise. Could anyone live with that ? What should I do? and how?
2006-11-06 15:30:31 · 16 answers · asked by million$gon 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I wouldnt do anything extreme... just ask your gf whats wrong, and ask why she's doing these things...be calm and keep your voice calm and quiet, you dont want to lose control or start up a huge arguement... just do your best in finding out the reasons behind her actions...perhaps she's under stress or issues... i unno but you should always be their for your gf course it depends on how devoted u are but ya =) gl
2006-11-06 15:42:15 · answer #1 · answered by endless dreamer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, it sounds like an intervention is in order. Write her a letter telling her how her behavior is making you feel. Ask her why she feels the need to betray you and hurt your things. It sounds like direct confrontation may not be the best tactic with her, so maybe leaving the note in her car would be a better idea. Make sure she doesn't read it while around you or your things. Be careful.
2006-11-06 15:33:53 · answer #2 · answered by spanishmarlena 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no mending the type of relationship you have. I think you already know the answer to your question, but are looking for a fix. Like your things your relationship is broken. Don't spend the rest of your life trying to fix it.
2006-11-06 15:33:43 · answer #3 · answered by jmethod81 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She has serious Temper control issues. You don't have to put up with that. You should leave as soon as possible. It's dangerous to live like that. She needs serious Psychiatric help.
2006-11-07 00:14:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do you not have a mind of your own? Can you not decide if you want to stay or go? Why is this even a question...seems pretty cut 'n dried to me...
Do what you want to do...but if you stay, you have no reason/right to complain...it's your choice to be there.
2006-11-06 15:33:33 · answer #5 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get the hell outta the relationship!! whats da matter with you? obviously the woman has issues and since talking with her is obviously outta the question "she may throw something at you" you need to protect your self and your belongings and call it quits with her.
2006-11-06 15:33:44 · answer #6 · answered by Kittie_Nash 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow...
question 1: apparently
question 2: tell her, if it dont work then decide whether shes worth it to you
question 3: very, very carefully, she could be dangerous...
2006-11-06 15:33:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Toss her stuff out the window and kick her *** to the curb!
2006-11-06 15:33:20 · answer #8 · answered by Kalia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is abusive. Give her her marching orders.
2006-11-06 15:59:39 · answer #9 · answered by Ms Piggy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to get away from her...she needs help and that's no way for you to live.
2006-11-06 15:33:41 · answer #10 · answered by nurse123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋