I just lost my virginity and im so nervous... is this normal? I'm 15 and my boyfriend is 16. We had sex today and we used a condom -It was great & All but when we were done , we found out it was ripped. I was suppose to get my period the 6th (Which is Tomorrow)...So im guessin theres a possible chance that i wont get it since i just lost my virginity? Idk what to do. ! My parents would kill me if I was pregnant. Im so nervous, idk ..what I should do...wait for my period?Or go to Planned Parenthood to see whats up.? Because I read somewhere that you can get a morning pill or something within the next 5 days? I thought about this the whole day ! Please help me ASAP!
2006-11-06 15:27:15 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
yeah you can go to the planned parenthood... google their website and find one near you... they have a pill called "morning after" or something like that, that you can take and have a higher chance of not getting pregnant.... make sure you go to planned parenthood ASAP because you can only take the pill within the first 72 hours so HURRY AND GO!!! and you may still get your period tomorrow, it all depends on your body.
-whatever you do, just try to remain calm... i've been in this EXACT same position you are, and i took the morning after pill and thankfully didnt end up being pregnant...
-be careful next time you and your boyfriend have sex... try to get on the pill if you plan to have sex with him again....
if you need anything im here to talk..... IM me or email me....
take care girl!
2006-11-06 15:44:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get the morning after pill. ASAP! It can be taken up to 72 hours after sex to prevent pregnancy. It does not cause abortions. Go to Planned Parenthood. They will give you a prescription and you'll probably be able to get it right there. Don't wait for your period.
It's good that you were using a condom. You may want to look up the proper technique on how to put on a condom to avoid tearing. Also, while you are at planned parenthood, you should ask your doctor about getting on the pill or some other form of hormonal contraception. That way, you won't need to worry so much about pregnancy. They will not tell your parents and since you are under 18 you may be able to get it free or at a very low cost. I'm a pill user and it's awesome. Continue using condoms in addition to the pill until you are in a long term monogamous relationship for STI protection. :) Good luck!
2006-11-06 17:21:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Go to your doctor just in case. Your regular doctor can likely prescribe a high dose of birth control (kinda like the morning after pill) or go to a planned parenthood and get the morning after pill. Better safe than sorry.
Do not wait for your period--sooner you go the better.
Good luck....
2006-11-06 15:36:47 · answer #3 · answered by fakebobjones 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're going to get a lot of "you're to young to be having sex" from people on here. What's done is done and you can't change it. However you can become more responsible. You need to get yourself on birth control. Stress does cause your period to be late so there is no way to know for sure. Relax and if you don't start in a few days contact planned parenthood and you really should talk to your mother, she MIGHT surprise you.
2006-11-06 15:40:03 · answer #4 · answered by mom of 2 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is highly unlikely that you will be pregnant if your period is due tmo.
Your period is "day 1" of your menstral cycle, you bleed then for 5-7 days.
Ovulation occurs on or about "day 14"
Your ova are only viable for around24-48 hours if not fertilized.
Whersas male sperm can survive for up to 5 days,
So NO sex b/w days 10-20 unless you use protection
SO you are fertile for up to 3-5 days asfter ovulating (day 14)(NO Go Period)
From what you have said you had sex on "day 27"....so there is no way you could get pregnant.....if you have got your days right.
Please be more responsible in the future
hope this puts your mind at ease
2006-11-06 16:13:42 · answer #5 · answered by Dors 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You could be pregnant but you may not be But the more you worry about starting it may stress you out and delay your period if you feel it is necessary to go to planned parent hood then go ahead but i am not sure it would show up on a pregnancy test and being a parent is hard work especially if you are still in school It might help to pray if you believe good luck
2006-11-06 15:32:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are probably fine.. If you plan on continuing this sexual activity than i do suggest you plan a visit to planned parenthood. However your nervousness suggests that you really aren't ready to be sexually active. And maybe you should re-think this decision. It will be hard to take your relationship back a few steps but if he really cares for you he will understand. I wish you the best of luck and hope you consider what I've said..
2006-11-06 15:33:53 · answer #7 · answered by mommy of 4 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
there is a morning after pill but you have to take it with in 72 hours of sex its 1 pill then 12 hours later you take another its a high dose of hormones to make you start your period .if you wake up and haven't started and you don't want a baby i suggest going to the local health department or Dr and get those pills they cost about 40 dollars from the Dr but health department might give them a little cheaper good luck and SAFE SEX PLEASE !
2006-11-06 16:57:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You really should be more care full, yes go to planned parenthood and get stuff taken care of before it is to late. You might be late because you are stress-in too.
2006-11-06 15:34:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go to a planned parenthood ASAP and get an emergency contraceptive pill.This should take care of the problem.
2006-11-06 15:48:14 · answer #10 · answered by jessica_peare 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋