i mean they would rather have a complete a*hole who has got a certain personality with him,doesnt normally get along with guys,would beat them in times of arguments.but they are happy to ignore shy wallflower kinds who would care for them certainly.
2006-11-06 15:26:34 · 8 answers · asked by varun k 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
such cr*p! i hate saddists like you!!!
2006-11-06 15:28:42 · answer #1 · answered by wat_more_can_i_say? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They dont always want a complete a**hole. Just someone who they know is willing to stand up for them when the time is right, so here's the thing. You may not like what i am about to say, and you certainly may not agree, But this is how i've seen things work. If you stay shy you stay single (for the most part, not all guys some guys just have a way of being shy and always taken). So this is what you gotta do. You gotta go out there and be confident (Talk to a random girl, you dont have to use pick up lines, just start a conversation with a simple hi. see how it works just have fun with it), dress nice (you know, take pride in the way you look), adopt a sense of humor (if someone rips on you laugh for a sec and then rip them back, dont take it to far. Seeing as how you describe yourself as a wallflower you might get hurt), and finally stop describing your self as a shy wallflower (that wont help). Im sorry if i came across as an a**hole but what i said is true. Thats how it works. Good luck.
2006-11-06 15:45:42 · answer #2 · answered by cuteindianjoker 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls aren't attracted to sadists (if saddist were word, it would have to do with being sad)...however if the wallflowers want to ge tthe girls, then they need to get their buns off the walls and in front of chicks...the 'bad boys' generally aren't shy and aren't afraid to go after women...that is more appealing to a lot of women, than a guy she has to go after (in spite of the fact that it's perfectly acceptable for chicks to pursue dudes)...
Most of the time, women don't know a guy is a jerk until they've been together a while...but then there are some wallflower jerks too...
If you don't want to be left out of the mix, then put yourself in it...it's not likely women will come knocking on your door looking for you...being a wallflower/shy is tough, but if you want something bad enough, even a shy person can make it happen...
2006-11-06 15:31:47 · answer #3 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I highly doubt that just because a guy is a bad boy that makes him a saddist as well. I believe calling them a saddist is going to the extreme.
I am a Christian gal and for some reason I love bad boys but with good boy hearts. You know what I mean?? I want a guy that will treat me well and has a faith for God, but also has a little bit of an edge. :)
2006-11-06 15:30:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
By describing yourself as a shy wallflower, Are you really interested in girls anyway?
2006-11-06 15:30:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Females, ecspeccially young ones, are very superficsial. The like a)hardtoget b)goodlooking; and c)popular. The shy wallflowers unfortunatly dont appeal to these unfortuate, stupid female requirments.
2006-11-06 15:31:01 · answer #6 · answered by Cloudyheartgurl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh. These are not saddists, but bad boys.
2006-11-06 15:30:19 · answer #7 · answered by floozy_niki 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
not every1 of us!!
2006-11-06 15:28:40 · answer #8 · answered by Sakura 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋